Happy & Satisfied Part 1

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He’s eating me out of house and home!  If you have a teenager, I’m sure you’ve said that like we have. Here’s  picture of my 16 year old son Kaleb at a buffet on Mother’s Day.  Four plates! A cup of soup and a bowl of ice cream.  He’s just getting started and will be going back for more.  What’s funny is that we’ll get home and within 15 minutes he’ll say, “I’m hungry”    Today’s Beatitude is about hunger.

Happy are those who are hungry and thirsty for righteousness, for they will be fully satisfied.” Matthew 5:6   (This week’s *MEMORY VERSE)

Been Hungry lately? In America, we’re so blessed being hungry is a Big Mac attack.  Being thirsty is Miller Time. Did you know that over 20,000 people die of hunger each day is the world?   There over 2 billion people that live on less than one dollar a day in the world and are often hungry.

We’re looking about real hunger, not simply those little hunger pangs we get between meals.

We are blessed to live in the United States, a rich country with vast areas of land, great crops produced and incredible gardens and orchards! Over 100 billion pounds of safe, edible food is thrown away here in the United States every year by retailers, restaurants, and farmers.

Hunger is not something we like to think about or face very much.

Being hungry is never pleasant. In fact, hunger can inspire bizarre behavior in us as humans. When we’re hungry, we sometimes do foolish things, sometimes we get irritable, like we see in the Snicker’s commercials.

I finally figured out why fashion models always look so intimidating when they’re walking down the runways…they’re hungry! They only weigh like 28 lbs, so they can’t be eating! So they march around looking so mean because they’re so hungry! Someday it would be fun to sneak in and throw a slice of pizza on the runway!  That would be pandemonium! Like sharks at a feeding frenzy!

Hunger isn’t pleasant. We don’t look forward to when we can be hungry. We don’t reminisce about the wonderful times of being hungry we’ve had. Hunger is not something we normally desire.

Yet Jesus has something very interesting to say about hunger, and we’re going to look at it.

We are studying the Beatitudes found in Matthew chapter 5, in the sermon on the mount.  Jesus is describing how to be happy: from our inward attitudes not our external circumstances.  He has been using contrasting ideas to express these things, by using a term over and over again…Makarios: (translated “Happy or Blessed”)  It’s a word that the ancient Greeks used to describe the gods or the elite of society who were insulated from the hassles and cares of life on this planet.

But Jesus uses this word, “blessed or happy” content, satisfied, not to describe gods or the upper crust crowd, but rather the least expected to be satisfied of all, the poor in spirit; those who feel the pain of mourning; the hungry!  He does this to contrast the worlds idea of the way things are, to God’s view of life and it’s meaning. Today we look at:

Happy or Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled.

Now, I have to tell you, I’ve heard and read a few sermons about this verse. And in all honesty, what I’ve heard about this has not always left me feeling all that great. I hope to take this in a different direction. I really want to get a glimpse of what Jesus has in view when he’s saying this to the crowd that day and to us today.

“Happy are those who are hungry and thirsty for righteousness.”  Jesus was talking to people who understood what it meant to be hungry or thirsty. In that region, few were prosperous, and more than likely, at one time or another, those listeners that day had experienced the kind of hunger he’s talking about here. It’s a desperate kind of hunger. For the word “hungry” there are two words in the Greek.  One of them means, “I want a bite of something — give me a piece of bread.”  The other meaning in the Greek is “I want the whole loaf!”  Guess which one Jesus uses here, yeah, the second one.  Jesus says “Happiness comes for people who say, `I want all of God there is!”  
It’s the same with thirst. He uses a strong word to describe thirsting: “dipsao” (dip-sah’-oh), which means to painfully feel the need for water.

What these two metaphors are directing us toward is the concept of human desire.

The desire for food and water are the strongest appetites we have as human beings.  Why is it so difficult for so many Americans to loose weight? Because that desire for food is powerful, and difficult to fight with. Hunger is powerful. It controls us, it so often determines our directions.

I’ve read soldier’s accounts that fought in WW2 & Viet Nam, and some of those soldiers suffered the terrible conditions of the Battle of the Bulge, where supply lines had been cut, and those guys were days without food, in the cold. So often they recorded how they would spend their time in the foxhole talking about their favorite food, or sleep and DREAM about eating their favorite meal.

This is the kind of hunger Jesus is talking about when he says those who are hungry for righteousness are blessed. You know what’s interesting about hunger like that?
When I have gone a long time without eating, I never dream about eating cabbage, onions or tomatoes; mainly because I hate that stuff! Now, if I’m really hungry and that stuff was put before me, I’d eat it right up. But in terms of how my craving is being expressed, when I’m hungry and I think of food, I think of the food I love.I notice that the soldiers I mentioned talked about their “favorite” foods, when they would dream of satisfying their hunger.

I think it’s interesting that Jesus used the metaphor of hungering and thirsting. Besides being powerful desires, but the satisfaction of those appetites is a very pleasant thing. Eating is fun!   It’s pleasurable!  We enjoy it – just look at the big smile on my son Kaleb’s face.

And yet, it’s been my experience that much of the teaching I’ve had on this passage has not been very pleasant at all. While we may be on the same page when it comes to understanding the passion behind the words “hunger and thirst”, when it comes to what we hunger and thirst for, I believe things get misconstrued.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve come to this passage explained by others and walked away with an uneasy, sickly, sense of condemnation, because so often it’s been presented like this:
If you’re hungering and thirsting for righteousness, you are going to be memorizing Bible verses, praying at least an hour a day, reading and studying your Bible, and never missing a church meeting.” It comes across as though hungering and thirsting for righteousness is knowing what all your obligations are, and doing what you ought to do!

This is why I have walked away from this passage and messages on it so many times with my head hanging down, because I felt I wasn’t ever going to get all those obligations sorted out! If I were honest with myself, I liked doing other stuff BESIDES memorizing scripture verses, and I felt condemned.
So, because we are supposed to be hungry for righteousness (if we’re good Christians) we are suddenly confronted with a plethora of obligations that we aren’t getting accomplished. Hungering and thirsting for righteousness becomes another way of expressing DUTY.
I have to tell you, this is totally contradictory to the imagery that Jesus is using here.

No one who’s normal, when he’s hungry, starts thinking about his obligation to eat. No one thinks “Man, I’m hungry, it’s really my duty to eat some food so that my body has fuel” or “I’m so hungry, and I know I’m obligated to eat, so I guess I better get to it…sigh”.

NO WAY!!  When I’m hungry, if I’ve been out working outside, and lunchtime is rolling around I don’t start thinking, “I really OUGHT to be eating”. Not likely. I’m going over in my mind all the stuff I really like to eat… BBQ…or chicken, a hamburger, Mexican Food, Anything Italian, shrimp, and I’m getting excited because not only is my hunger a driving desire, the satisfaction of that hunger represents something pleasurable to me, not an obligation!

Do we really think that Jesus, in this Sermon on the Mount is telling us how to be happy by beating us up and pointing out our religious obligations?

It’s like he turns from being a caring Savior to being a drill instructor with one sentence…. “LISTEN UP moron…if you are hungering and thirsting for righteousness then you WILL learn to love sitting in a hard pew instead of enjoying football games…you will LOVE archaic hymns, and you will learn to cherish and memorize the KJV of the BIBLE, MAGGOT!!!
Do we really think that’s what Jesus was saying? And yet, that’s what we project on Him when we equate hungering and thirsting for righteousness with stuff we should be doing. That completely misses the depth of what He’s saying.

Isn’t it interesting that Jesus didn’t say “blessed are those who work up a hunger and thirst for righteousness”? I really think we get confused here, because we start assessing our lives and the things that we enjoy and come away thinking, “man…I really don’t seem to have a hunger for righteousness”…

And that’s the BIG MISTAKE. Because no matter who we are, we DO hunger and thirst!
In the next post we’ll look how to get FULL, be satisfied and happy about it.

Darrell

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Happy are the Peace Makers

Happy RidgeIs your home peaceful?  We’re looking at the teachings of Jesus in Mathew, chapter 5, in a section that’s known as the Beatitudes where Jesus gave us 8 different directions for those who would be happy or blessed. Today, I want to look at “Happy are the Peacemakers.”

Jesus was talking to everybody, but since we just celebrated Mother’s Day, we’re applying this beatitude to our homes.

So many homes are not as happy, I believe, as God would want them to be.  I want to look at how to have peace in the home.   Many of our homes are not characterized as homes of peace, but conflict, tension or strife. And I believe that God has something way better for us, that he wants our homes to be characterized as homes of peace. You may think, “Yes, you’re talking to me. My home’s got a lot of dysfunction in it, but most of it’s not my fault.”  It’s true that every home has at least one incredibly difficult family member.

Relationships are difficult and challenging. It’s amazing how easily we can slip into dysfunctional cycles in our relationships. Maybe, you’re trying to raise your kids and your mom keeps looking over your shoulder, giving you tension between you and your mom. Or maybe, it’s your kids. They fight all the time and you find yourself saying things you thought you’d never say like, “Don’t make me pull this car over!”  Maybe, you a teenager and you think, “My parents will never trust me and they’re always breathing down my neck. They’re so controlling.” You might be in a blended home and you’re trying to raise your kids, and her kids, and our kids, and there’s ex’s involved, and it’s so incredibly complicated. And you wonder, “How could there ever be peace with all these moving parts?” Some of you, you might be at a place where you, to this day, have not forgiven your mom or your dad for something that happened years and years ago. Today, as we look at this teaching of Jesus, I have hope that God can do some healing our hearts.

This is what Jesus  said,

“Happy are the peacemakers; God will call them his children!   Matthew 5:9 (TEV)

The Hebrew word for peace is “Shalom.” “Shalom” has been a well-known greeting, still even today.  This word for “peace” means more than what we think in our English language. The word peace, “shalom,” means more than just the absence of bad, it also means, “I wish you the highest good.” When Jesus says, “Happy are the peace makers,” he doesn’t just mean, “I want your home to be strife free,” but “I also want you to have the highest, good.” Happy are the peace makers for they’ll be called Children of God. And when Jesus said this, just like the other 7 Beatitudes, everybody listening would have been shocked. These were very counter-cultural statements because everyone there had been raised with the mindset “an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.” Someone hits you, you hit them back.  Jesus was saying something that was very shocking, “Happy are the peace makers.” There is a higher calling for those of you that want to follow me. Now, if you’ll notice, he said, “Happy are the peace makers,” he didn’t say, “Happy are the peace keepers.” And there’s a big difference. For years, I was a type of a peace keeper, and can default to that easily, some of you have been as well.  But there’s a difference.

What are peace keepers? Peace keepers often avoid conflict to keep the peace. Peace keepers, they’ll work around the issues not through the issues, trying to keep the peace. Like, “Oh, let’s just make a truce. Let’s just not talk about it.” “Let’s get together at family dinners and we’ll smile and act like we’re getting along although we really know there’s tension behind the scenes.” “But we’re not going to show it because we are happy at this meal, no fighting.”  And then months go by, then something sets you off or somebody else and there’s a blow up. “I’m sick and tired of you! You did this and this and this and this!” And you think, “Where did all this come from?”  Answer: there were dozens of unresolved issues.  Jesus didn’t say, “Happy are the peace keepers,” He said, “Happy are the peace makers.” What will a peace a maker do?

A peace maker will embrace conflict to keep the peace. We’re not going to work around the issues, we’ll work on the issues; we’ll work through them. And with the help of the Prince of Peace, Jesus, we believe there can be peace in your homes.

Let’s look at 3 Actions of a Peace Keeper in a family setting:

  1. Tell the truth in love. Ephesians 4:15 says, “We will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ.” If we are growing like Christ we will tell the truth in love. Notice it doesn’t say to “Yell the truth in love “You always leave your clothes out here!” We tell the truth in love. How?  Two helpful tips: 1. Work on an issue, or talk about a problem during a non-conflict time.  In other words, if someone is throwing a shoe at you because they’re angry, that’s not the time to raise a new issue.  We work on them during non-conflict times. Secondly, attack the issue, never the person.   As people seeking to grow like Christ, we tell the truth in love. We love them enough not to work around the issues, but to work through the issues.  Here are a few statements that might be helpful of what you might say. “When you don’t listen to me, I don’t feel like you value me.” That’s a statement. “This is how I feel when you do this.” “When you lie to me about something really insignificant, I find it difficult to trust you,” or — we’re confronting the issue — “When you continue to check your phone at the dinner table, the rest of us feel devalued.” It’s so important to spend time with your family: put your phones down and have a meal with your family.  Confront the issue, not the person, and do it at non conflict times.  That’s how we tell the truth in love. That’s what we do as peace makers.

2. Peace makers apologize when they’re wrong. James 5:16 says, “Therefore, confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you might be healed.” What do you think your relationships would be like if, when you hurt someone you confessed it? “I am so sorry. What I did was wrong. I sinned against you.” “Will you please forgive me?” And then you prayed together. Can you imagine how incredibly different our relationships would be if we owned our own faults, confessed them, and then prayed together? Peace makers apologize when they’re wrong. Now, how do we do it? We admit to specific actions without excuses. “Here is what I did wrong,” and no excuses. You don’t dare say, “Well, sorry I looked at something that was inappropriate but if you’d been meeting my needs, you wouldn’t have driven me to do that.” That’s not an apology; that is pathetic. “I’m sorry you got your feelings hurt, you big, old baby.”  That’s not an apology.  We apologize for specifics. “I am so sorry that I belittled you in front of your friends. I have no excuse for that; that was wrong.” “I am really sorry I didn’t consider you. I should have called when I was late. I can see why you’re so worried.” “I am sorry I raised my voice at you like that; that was disrespectful. Please forgive me.”

There’s a big difference between remorse and repentance. So often people stop with remorse, “Well, I’m sorry I got caught.” “I’m sorry we’re having this hard time.” “I’m sorry you got your feelings hurt.” “And I’m sorry we’re going through this.” That’s remorse. Repentance is, “I was wrong.” I sinned. I’m sorry. Will you forgive me?” And when you sin, don’t stop with “I’m sorry.” “I’m sorry” is for mistakes. “Will you forgive me” is for sin. “I’m sorry I left the toilet lid up.” That’s a mistake. “Will you forgive me for deceiving you,” that is sin. Don’t just stop at, “I’m sorry”, but when you’ve actually sinned against someone, “Will you please forgive me?” Happy are the peace makers for they will be called Children of God.  Christ calls us not just to wish the absence of harm but the highest good. He calls us to something more. So, we tell the truth in love, we apologize when we’re wrong.

  1. Peace makers forgive and let go. There is a tremendous amount of pain in so many lives. And you may be thinking, “Well you don’t know what I’ve been through.” Perhaps, your spouse betrayed you, committed adultery, maybe multiple times. And you think, “How can I forgive them?” Maybe you’ve got someone that you trusted with everything and they lied and they deceived you and left you in a really hard place and that’s very difficult to forgive. Some of you have someone in your family who should have protected you. And that person who should have protected you took advantage of and you abused you. And you think, “How in the world do I forgive that? I don’t even want to forgive. How do I forgive?” I’m not going to tell you it’s easy but I will tell you it’s doable. The bible tells us how we do it: Colossians 3:13, Paul said, “To bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.” Now, how do we forgive that which seems unforgivable? Paul said we do it this way. “We forgive as the Lord forgave you.” I want to ask you a question: Has the lord forgiven you of a lot of sins? I don’t know about you but he’s forgiven me of a lot. Has the Lord forgiven you freely even though you did not deserve it and couldn’t earn it? And that’s how we’re called to forgive, to freely forgive as we’ve been forgiven. That’s what we do as Christ followers.

Family is worth it.  And there are some of you that you call yourself a Christian and you’re not acting like it. Family is worth it. If we’re followers of Jesus what do we do? What we don’t do is when marriage gets tough, just walk out, say, “Forget you; I’ll take my stuff. You take yours. I give up. I’m not happy right now.” What we don’t do is write our children off and say, “Well, you’ve done this, you’re no longer my child.” What we don’t do is we don’t walk away from our in-laws and say, “You’re annoying.” Of course, they’re annoying; you’ll be an in-law one day, and you’ll be annoying too! We don’t walk away from family; we don’t cut family out. Family is worth it. We forgive as we’ve been forgiven. We show mercy as we’ve been shown mercy. And while we’re at it, if we’re followers of Jesus, family isn’t just blood. Family goes beyond that into the body of Christ. And when we act like Christ and we forgive, and when we act like him and we show mercy, and when we act like him and we make peace, we are called “Children of God.”  I’ve got 3 children. Guess what? They all look a little bit like me. Those who are lucky look more like Niki! And guess what? When we make peace and when we do everything possible to live at peace with everyone, and when we freely forgive, guess who we look like? We look like our Heavenly Father, created in his image, conformed to the likeness of his son. Happy are the peace makers for they will be called Children of God.

Darrell

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#Happy – The Beatitudes

Happy RidgeThe series of conditional blessings promised in Matthew 5:3-12 have long been called the Beatitudes, a name derived from Latin and referring to a state of happiness or bliss. Jesus presents the possibility of people being genuinely happy, and that available happiness is the opening theme of the Sermon on the Mount. Many people, including some Christians, find that hard to believe. How could a message as demanding and impossible as the Sermon on the Mount be intended to make people happy? Yet the first and greatest sermon preached by Jesus Christ begins with the resounding and repeated theme of happiness, a fitting start for the New Testament’s “good news.”

Far from being the cosmic killjoy that many accuse Him of being, God desires to save men from their tragic lostness, to give them power to obey His will, and to make them happy. In this great sermon, His Son carefully and clearly sets forth the way of blessedness for those who come to Him.

Makarios (blessed) means happy, fortunate, blissful. Homer used the word to describe a wealthy man, and Plato used it of one who is successful in business. Both Homer and Hesiod spoke of the Greek gods as being happy (makarios) within themselves, because they were unaffected by the world of men—who were subject to poverty, disease, weakness, misfortune, and death. The fullest meaning of the term, therefore, had to do with an inward contentedness that is not affected by circumstances. That is the kind of happiness God desires for His children, a state of joy and well-being that does not depend on physical, temporary circumstances  (Phil. 4:11-13).

The word blessed is often used of God Himself, as when David ended one of his psalms with the declaration “Blessed be God!” (Ps. 68:35). His son Solomon sang, “Blessed be the Lord God, the God of Israel, who alone works wonders” (Ps. 72:18). Paul spoke of “the glorious gospel of the blessed God” (1 Tim. 1:11) and of Jesus Christ “who is the blessed and only Sovereign, the King of kings and Lord of lords” (6:15). Blessedness is a characteristic of God, and it can be a characteristic of men only as they share in the nature of God. There is no blessedness, no perfect contentedness and joy of the sort of which Jesus speaks here, except that which comes from a personal relationship to Him, through whose “magnificent promises” we “become partakers of the divine nature” (2 Pet. 1:4).

Because blessedness is fundamentally an element of the character of God, when men partake of His nature through Jesus Christ they partake of His blessedness. So it becomes clear at the very beginning of the Sermon on the Mount that Jesus is speaking of a reality that is only for believers. Others can see the kingdom standards and get a glimpse of kingdom blessings, but only those who belong to the kingdom have the promise of personally receiving and experiencing the blessings. To be blessed is not a superficial feeling of well-being based on circumstance, but a deep supernatural experience of contentedness based on the fact that one’s life is right with God. Blessedness is based on objective reality, realized in the miracle of transformation to a new and divine nature.

The Beatitudes seem paradoxical. The conditions and their corresponding blessings do not seem to match. By normal human standards such things as humility, mourning, desire for righteousness, mercy, and persecution are not the stuff of which happiness is made. To the natural man, and to the immature or carnal Christian, such happiness sounds like misery with another name. As one commentator has observed, it is much as if Jesus went into the great display window of life and changed all the price tags.

In a way, happiness is misery with another name; Jesus has changed the price tags. He teaches that misery endured for the right purpose and in the right way is the key to happiness. That basic principle summarizes the Beatitudes. The world says, “Happy are the rich, the noble, the successful, the macho, the glamorous, the popular, the famous, the aggressive.” But the message from the King does not fit the world’s standards, because His kingdom is not of this world but of heaven. His way to happiness, which is the only way to true happiness, is by a much different route.

Seneca, the first-century Roman philosopher who tutored Nero, wisely wrote, “What is more shameful than to equate the rational soul’s good with that which is irrational?” His point was that you cannot satisfy a rational, personal need with an irrational, impersonal object. External things cannot satisfy internal needs.

Yet that is exactly the philosophy of the world: things satisfy. Acquiring things brings happiness, achieving things brings meaning, doing things brings satisfaction.

Solomon, the wisest and most magnificent of ancient kings, tried the world’s way to happiness for many years. He had the royal blood of his father, David, coursing through his veins. He had vast amounts of gold and jewels and “made silver as common as stones in Jerusalem” (1 Kings 10:27). He had fleets of ships and stables filled with thousands of the finest horses. He had hundreds of wives, gathered from the most beautiful women of many lands. He ate the most sumptuous of foods on the finest of tableware in the most elegant of palaces with the most distinguished people. He was acclaimed throughout the world for his wisdom, power, and wealth. Solomon should have been immeasurably happy. Yet that king, so great and blessed by earthly standards, concluded that his life was purposeless and empty. The theme of Ecclesiastes, Solomon’s personal testimony on the human situation, is “Vanity of vanities! All is vanity. What advantage does man have in all his work which he does under the sun?” (1:2-3).

Jesus came to announce that the tree of happiness cannot grow in a cursed earth. Earthly things cannot bring even lasting earthly happiness, much less eternal happiness. “Beware, and be on your guard against every form of greed,” Jesus warned; “for not even when one has an abundance does his life consist of his possessions” (Luke 12:15). Physical things simply cannot touch the soul, the inner person.

It should be pointed out that the opposite is also true: spiritual things cannot satisfy physical needs. When someone is hungry he needs food, not a lecture on grace. When he is hurt he needs medical attention, not moral advice. True spiritual concern for such people will express itself first of all in providing for their physical needs. “Whoever has the world’s goods, and beholds his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him?” (1 John 3:17).

But the more common danger is trying to meet almost every need with physical things. That philosophy is as futile as it is unscriptural. When King Saul was distressed, his jewels and his army could give him no help. When King Belshazzar was having a great feast with his nobles, wives, and concubines, he suddenly saw a hand writing on the wall, “MENE, MENE, TEKEL, UPHARSIN.” He was so terrified that his “face grew pale, and his thoughts alarmed him; and his hip joints went slack, and his knees began knocking together.” His military power, his influential allies, and his great possessions could give him no solace (Dan. 5:3-6, 25).

The great Puritan saint Thomas Watson wrote, “The things of the world will no more keep out trouble of spirit, than a paper sconce will keep out a bullet…. Worldly delights are winged. They may be compared to a flock of birds in the garden, that stay a little while, but when you come near to them they take their flight and are gone. So ‘riches make themselves wings; they fly away as an eagle toward heaven'” (The Beatitudes [Edinburgh: Banner of Truth Trust, 1971], p. 27). The writer of Proverbs said, “Do not weary yourself to gain wealth, cease from your consideration of it. When you set your eyes on it, it is gone” (Prov. 23:4-5).

Tragically, many preachers, teachers, and writers today “who must be silenced” (Titus 1:11) are passing off worldly philosophy in the name of Christianity-claiming that faithfulness to Christ guarantees health, wealth, success, prestige, and prosperity. But Jesus taught no such thing. What He taught was nearer the opposite. He warned that physical, worldly advantages most often limit true happiness. The things of the world become fuel for pride, lust, and self-satisfaction—the enemies not only of righteousness but of happiness. “The worry of the world, and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful,” Jesus said (Matt. 13:22).

To expect happiness from the things of this world is like seeking the living among the dead, just as the women sought Christ at the garden tomb on that first Easter morning. The angels told the women, “He is not here, but He has risen” (Luke 24:6). Paul said, “If then you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth” (Col. 3:1-2). John said, “Do not love the world, nor the things in the world…. And the world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God abides forever” (1 John 2:15, 17).

True blessedness is on a higher level than anything in the world, and it is to that level that the Sermon on the Mount takes us. Here is a completely new way of life, based on a completely new way of thinking. It is in fact based on a new way of being. The standard of righteousness, and therefore the standard of happiness, is the standard of selflessness—a standard that is completely opposite to man’s fallen impulses and unregenerate nature.

It is impossible to follow Jesus’ new way of living without having His new life within. As someone has suggested, one might as well try in our own day to fulfill Isaiah’s prophecy that in the Millennium the wolf, lamb, leopard, kid, lion, and cow will live together peaceably (Isa. 11:6-7). If we were to go to a zoo and lecture a lion on the new peaceable way he was expected to live, and then placed a lamb in the cage with him, we know exactly what would happen as soon as the lion became hungry. The lion will not lie down peaceably with the lamb until the day when the lion’s nature is changed.

It is important to remember that the Beatitudes are pronouncements, not probabilities. Jesus does not say that if men have the qualities of humility, meekness, and so on that they are more likely to be happy. Nor is happiness simply Jesus’ wish for His disciples. The Beatitudes are divine judgmental pronouncements, just as surely as are the “woes” of chapter 23. Makarios is, in fact, the opposite of ouai (woe), an interjection that connotes pain or calamity. The opposite of the blessed life is the cursed life. The blessed life is represented by the true inner righteousness of those who are humble, poor in spirit, whereas the cursed life is represented by the outward, hypocritical self-righteousness of the proud religionists (5:20).
Source:  The – MacArthur New Testament Commentary – Matthew 1-7.

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#Happy

Happy RidgeIn one of Jesus most famous sermons, actually one of the most famous of all sermons, the Sermon the Mount found in Matthew 5 we have 8 positive statements about happiness called “The Beatitudes.”  Of all the subjects Jesus could have chosen to speak on when he started the Sermon on the Mount He chose the subject How to Be Happy.  Why?  Because He knew that was what everybody was searching for but very few people find it.

  •  Matthew 5: 3-12 is commonly referred to as “The Beatitudes.”
  • Each of the nine “Beatitudes” begins with the word “happy” or “blessed.”

Each of these begins with the word “happy or blessed”.   The Greek word used is “makarios” which can be translated as blessed or happy.   The word “blessed” is an Old English word.  It simply means “happy”.  Jesus says “Happy are you if you’re poor in spirit for yours is the kingdom of heaven… Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted … Happy are the meek for they will inherit the earth … Happy are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness for they shall be filled … Happy are the merciful for they will be shown mercy.  Happy are the pure in heart for they will see God.  Happy are the peacemakers for they will be called the sons of God. Happy are those who are persecuted because of righteousness for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

  •  What Jesus says seems to be a contradiction.

The thought that genuine joy and satisfaction comes from being poor in anything is diametrically opposed to the conventional wisdom of today’s culture. In the minds of those who have bought into the world’s way of thinking, verse 3 ought to read “Blessed are the rich, the famous, the powerful, the movers and shakers, the important, the aggressive, the self-reliant, the self-confident, the glamorous…” In today’s world, being “poor in spirit” is equated with being depressed, weak, timid, and passive. Everyone knows that this is not the way to get ahead. This is not the way to attain “happiness.”

When you read those things, does that sound like contradictions? Happy if you’re sad… happy if you’re poor … happy if you’re put down and persecuted!  That does not sound like happiness to me.  Jesus was saying that you can learn to be happy in spite of your circumstances.  If you have to have all of your problems solved before you become happy, will you ever be happy?  No.  If you have to have everything perfect in your life before you’re happy, will you be happy?  No.

  •  Jesus shows me that happiness is not determined by external circumstances but by my internal

The popular idea of happiness is having the right circumstances. But God’s way to happiness is having the right attitude.

My happiness is not determined by what’s happening around me, but rather by what’s happening in me.

Happiness is a choice.  You choose the right attitudes. Basically right now, whether you’re happy or sad, or somewhere in between, you’re about as happy as you choose to be.  Life is tough.  There are a lot of things that don’t go right and don’t go your way in life.  Happiness depends on choosing the right attitudes.

For the next nine weeks we’re going to look at these Beatitudes of How to be Happy.  It starts Mother’s Day.  I hope you can join us!

Darrell

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