How Do I Know I Have Value and Worth?

Explore GodWe’re continuing our new series Explore God!  Each campus will explore the topic, “Does Life Have a Purpose?”   I hope you can join us!  Below is an article from to get us thinking on the topic.

A Solid Basis for Self-Worth

Culture—and the proverbial wisdom that gives it shape—can offer guidance to those in search of value and worth, there is one thing it cannot do. It cannot assure people of their dignity as unique individuals apart from their ethnic, cultural, or religious group.

As conscious, rational, moral beings, we demand a more secure foundation for our individual self-worth. How can we know that we possess intrinsic value? Our culture teaches us to survive and even to be happy, yet we yearn within to know that we possess essential worth.

How do you know that you are of value? Some may respond to this with stock answers: I know that I have value because I have a high-paying job, or two beautiful children, or a great athletic career, or a well-disciplined mind.

But what if she loses her job, or his children die in a car crash, or her knee is shattered, or he contracts Alzheimer’s disease? Have these four people lost their value and worth as individuals? Surely not!

There must be another answer to this question, then—one that is more secure, that is built on a foundation that cannot be shattered by economic shifts or unexpected tragedies. There must be a more essential, solid basis for self-worth.

The Christian Answer

Many (though not all) religions ground intrinsic human value in the belief that we were created in the image of God. But I would argue that this answer is not, on its own, sufficient to secure our full dignity and worth.

For example, it is not enough for children simply to know the identity of their biological father. If they do not also know that he understands them, accepts them, and loves them unconditionally, they may doubt their own value and worth. Something more is needed—a deeper, more essential ground.

And that something is found uniquely in Christianity.

Beyond our desire—even driving our desire—to be accepted is the universal, transcultural need to be loved deeply, truly, and unconditionally. We all feel a longing to be accepted for who we are, to be judged worthy by the one who created us.

According to the Apostle Paul, “God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.The Apostle John stated, “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”2 Jesus himself said, “I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me—just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep.”3

Jesus died for us while we were sinners, while there was nothing in us to love. He took on the weight and consequence of our sins, and in his resurrection, Jesus overcame sin and death, opening the direct pathway to relationship with God. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”4

God valued humankind so much that he sacrificed his only begotten Son, and Jesus willingly underwent tremendous suffering for our sake. Though we were unworthy, Jesus made us worthy by providing a system through which we can take into ourselves the very holiness of Christ and have a personal relationship with God. God’s love, his undeniable cherishing of his creation, I would argue, is the ultimate proof of human worth and value.

  1. The Holy Bible, The New International Version © 1984, Romans 5:8.
  2. Ibid., 1 John 4:10.
  3. Ibid., John10:14–15.
  4. Ibid., John 3:16.
Written by: Louis Markos, Ph.D

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Lead Pastor of Upwards Church: Leander & Jarrell, TX
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