What Faith Looks Like

Posted on January 26, 2018 by dkoop

Rear view of young businessman looking at faith door

This Sunday we will look at the life and the book of Joshua which will deal with our fears and inspire us to great levels of courage.   But before Joshua could do what God called him to do, Abraham and Sarah had gone before him leaving a powerful example of faith.

So, what can Abraham’s example teach us about faith? There are three aspects of faith we’ll examine:

  1. God’s People Have Faith, even without all the answers.

1  The LORD had said to Abram, “Leave your country, your people and your father’s household and go to the land I will show you.  Genesis 12:1

When I use Google Maps, I type in my destination and it gives me answers like, how many miles, how much time, which route is best, which route is fastest and which route has tolls where there might be delays and more.   God is not like that, he says “go.” And I’ll show you later, not all at once.

Abraham obeyed God and left home for a far place, not knowing “Where” he was going.   He didn’t get the “How” or the “When” or much of the “Why.”

Faith has that quality to it—not knowing quite where we are heading.  If you’re the type of person who needs to plan every move, get ready . . .
. . . for stepping into the unknown. We haven’t seen where faith may lead us. Faith often carries with it an element of adventure.
. . . for becoming more of a pilgrim than a tour guide. Each day faith will stretch our vision.
. . . for following close to Jesus. In faith we follow his teaching and example, and through faith we grow to know him personally.

That’s faith—always heading out. Jesus knows the way, and that’s enough for us to take the next step

We can take heart from Abraham’s example of faith. God may ask us to give up secure, familiar surroundings in order to carry out his will; he may ask us to do some difficult tasks.  Abraham’s questions were not all answered; he didn’t have all the details but had faith anyway.

Abraham as we mentioned in the last post was 75 years old and barren.  He didn’t have faith in himself, he had faith in God.   Our faith is not about the quality of our faith or the quantity our faith. Our faith is about the OBJECT of our faith, God.

  1. God’s People Obey, even without knowing where it will lead.

4  So Abram left, as the LORD had told him; and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years old when he set out from Haran.

Abraham Left.   What will you leave behind to journey in faith?

God may be trying to lead you to a place of greater service and usefulness for him. Don’t let the comfort and security of your present position make you miss God’s plan for you.

When we decide to follow Jesus Christ in faith God expects us to leave our old pattern of living to go to new life.  Abraham’s faith required him to leave the idol worshiping and unbelief behind and started him toward a new land and a new life. As God works in our hearts he desires a total willingness to leave behind everything that is not pleasing to Him. He cannot lead us into new ways of living until He leads us out of the old. We should respond, “I don’t know what You are going to do with me, Lord, but I’m going to leave all those old things. I don’t know what You’re going to substitute for them, but I’m going to let them go.”

Here’s a lesson that I have learned: Comfortable Christianity is the opposite of faith.  They don’t exist together.  Do you know what happens when you mix bleach and vinegar?   They create a toxic gas!  They literally destroy each other.   Trying to be a comfortable Christian and live a life of faith does not go together.  Giving financially to God’s work is not comfortable. Forgiving those who hurt us is not comfortable, serving instead of sleeping in is not comfortable.  Faith is often uncomfortable.

  1. God’s People Trust, even without seeing the entire outcome.

This is one is difficult for me.  Abraham lived by faith throughout the rest of his life, continuing to trust God as he lived in the land God promised him. This land was to be his “as an inheritance” yet Abraham never possessed the land. Instead, he lived in “his” land like a foreigner, living in a tent. (Hebrews 11:8-9)  He was promised the land, but never possessed the land!

Abraham waited patiently for the really valuable things. He never saw God’s promise fulfilled; he just waited and waited and waited. Often the hardest times for us as believers are the in-between times, the times of waiting. Abraham spent a great deal of time waiting. He waited 25 long years for the son of promise, who was finally given. He waited all his life for the land of promise, which was never given. Yet he waited and watched and worked in the patient belief that God is faithful.

If we knew that Christ would be coming in a month, we would give full attention to forsaking sin, praying, witnessing, serving, and to all the other things of Christ. To devote a whole month entirely to the Lord would not be so hard if we knew that it would all be over that soon. But to be about His business month after month, year after year, with His promises seemingly no nearer being fulfilled than when we were first saved, takes patience.

It is discouraging to pray and trust and work and see no results. A mother may pray for 15, 20, or 30 years for the salvation of a child, and never see him come to Christ. Does that mean she didn’t’ have faith? No, a minister may serve in a church faithfully for ten years and see little evidence of spiritual growth.  Does that mean he didn’t’ have faith?  No, Noah worked for more than 100 years on the ark, preaching all the while. Progress on the ark was unimaginably slow and success in witnessing was nonexistent. Yet he continued to build and to preach until both were finished.

Faith may not bring the results we want in the time we want.  We may not see the results of our faith in our own lifetime!  Faith is faith because we trust God with the ultimate results.

In the New Testament book of Hebrews it summarizes Abraham’s faith and legacy well:

12  And so from this one man, and he as good as dead, came descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as countless as the sand on the seashore.  Hebrews 11:12

Faith is not easy, but faith is powerful.

Faith sees the invisible, hears the inaudible, touches the intangible, and accomplishes the impossible.

 I commit to live by faith in Christ will you?

Darrell

 

 

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A New Beginning for God’s People

Posted on January 24, 2018 by dkoop

“If the other planets are inhabited,” quipped George Bernard Shaw, “then they must be using the earth for their insane asylum.” We may chuckle at that statement, but it reminds us of a sad fact: The world is in a mess, and it does not seem to be getting any better. What is wrong?

It all goes back to events recorded in the Book of Genesis. Except for the account in chapters 1 and 2, the first eleven chapters of Genesis record one failure of man after another, failures that are being repeated today. The first man and woman broke the one rule God gave them and moved out of the Garden (chap. 3). Cain murdered his brother Abel and lied about it. Then Lamech marries two women and boasts about killing two men! (chap. 4). Humanity became so corrupt that God cleansed the earth with a flood (chaps. 6-8). Noah got drunk and exposed himself to his son Ham (chap. 9). In their defiance men built a city and a tower to reach God; and God had to send confusion to end the rebellion (chap. 10).

Murder, disobedience, deception, drunkenness, polygamy, nudity, rape and rebellion sound pretty up-to-date, don’t they? If you were God, what would you do with these sinners, men and women you had created in your own image?. “I’d probably destroy them!” you might reply; but that’s not what God did. Instead, God called a man and his wife to leave their home and go to a new land, so that He might give humanity a new beginning!

Because of God’s call and their obedient faith, Abraham and Sarah ultimately gave to the world the Jewish nation from which would come the Bible, and our Savior, Jesus Christ.

So, God didn’t give up on the human race, no.  He continued His grand vision of community with mankind by establishing a spiritual community, a special group of related, like-minded people intent on knowing God as much as He wanted to know them, a spiritual community full of people who would be committed to sharing God’s redemptive plan with the rest of the world.

In coming weeks in Joshua and Judges we’ll study the struggles that came with the building of God’s people.  They were a lot like us today!

As we begin Genesis 12—a thousand years have passed since the flood. The genealogies that fill chapters 10 and 11 set the scene for the arrival of a very important person named Abram…a descendant of Noah’s son, Shem. Abram would be the Father of this chosen nation of God. God did not choose to build his people so that He could bless them.

God chose his people because He had a task for them to do. It was blessed to be a blessing.   If you know God, you are blessed to be a blessing. This nation that Abram was to found was to be an instrument to return the fallen world to God.  Anne Graham Lotz says, “God’s plan for Abram’s life would be the beginning of the solution…the solution to all the problems that had swarmed out of the Pandora’s box of sin, affecting the human race since the Garden of Eden. The world would never be the same.” In short, Abram or as he would later be known, Abraham, would be the beginning of the end for Satan and his curse of death upon the human race.

But who was Abraham? Abraham was from Ur—the region of the world where the Tower of Babel had been built, which means he grew up and lived in a pagan society that thrived four thousand years ago. Abraham was most likely well-educated and cultured. Archeologists have excavated UR and found it to have been a place where society was very advanced much more advanced than historians originally thought. For example, they found a great library there with clay tablets bearing the records of thriving commerce, literature, and religion. They found the foundations of huge structures….homes, palaces, and public buildings that rival those we make today.  It was a great civilization indeed.

Ur was a port city—situated in the fertile area between the Tigris and Euphrates rivers in what later became known as Babylonia. The people were religious—but pagan. Their priesthood offered human sacrifices…and Abraham would have been very familiar with this because his father Terah was deeply involved in the false religion of the area. (Josh. 24:2)

For some reason, God chose this well-educated but pagan man—Abram—to found His chosen people—the nation of Israel.   “The Lord said to Abram, “Leave your country, your people and your father’s household and go to the land I will show you. I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing.I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you.” (Gen 12)

He left his culture with all its benefits and headed out to a place he didn’t know!  This pagan man would never again sleep under a roof, he would be a tent-dweller. But there are other problems with God’s choice of the father of His chosen nation.  It wasn’t just the fact that he was a pagan that makes us question God’s choice. When God called them to this task Abraham and his wife were old. He was 75 and she was ten years his junior. Sure 75 is the new 40, but Sarah was also barren and childless. So God picked a pagan, childless couple who were reviewing retirement home fliers to found this chosen nation.

I personally find this humorous; God used an old, pagan, barren couple to start a Godly nation!

If God can use an old, pagan and barren couple he can use you too!

God will do this kind of thing over and over and over again. We’ll see that our Heavenly Father prefers to use the least likely people to accomplish His purpose and to tell His story. Let’s review some of the shakers and the movers in God’s story and you’ll see what I mean. Abraham was old. Isaac was insecure. Jacob was a con-man. Leah was unattractive. Joseph was a slave and a brat as a kid. Moses stuttered and was a murder. Gideon had anxiety attacks. Samson an arrogant womanizer that needed a haircut. Rahab was a prostitute. David had an affair and murdered the husband.  Elijah was depressed and suicidal. Jeremiah was depressed and cried a lot. Jonah was disobedient and suicidal. Naomi was a widow. Mary was a poor teenager. John the Baptist ate bugs. Peter was impulsive. Martha was a worry wart. The Samaritan woman had five failed marriages. Thomas had his doubts. Paul executed Christians for a living. Timothy was timid…and the list goes on and on—a list of the unlikely people that God used in powerful ways to tell His story. It’s not what you would expect. It’s not who we would choose. But nevertheless that’s what we’ll see.

The question is, “Why?” Why does God prefer to use imperfect misfits to accomplish His purposes? Why would He pick an elderly infertile couple to populate an entire nation? God made this choice—He makes these kind of choices—to display His power and glory. He does it so there will be no doubt that He is the source of the miracles that come, that He is the giver of every good and perfect gift. He does it this way because His strength is made most visible in our weakness.

If you feel unqualified to be a part of the story God is writing. If you feel, “It’s too late for me. I’m too old. I’ve made too many mistakes. I’ve had my chances and I blew them. I don’t have their resources or the gifts. I don’t have the right talents.” If you feel this way, you can look at Abraham and Sarah and all the others and know that God uses weak, imperfect people like that. He uses people like you and me.  It may not make the most sense on paper but it gives God an opportunity to be glorified which is what the story is ultimately about.

But there was something very special about Abraham—and I’m referring to his faith. Abraham’s entire life is a story of faith.   Fourteen chapters are devoted to the telling of his life story, plus he is mentioned 160 times in Old Testament and 71 times in the New Testament. When you put it all together it’s a story of FAITH.

In the next few posts, we’ll examine what faith looks like.  God’s people are called to live a life of faith which is not an easy task.

Darrell

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Review of Genesis 1-11

Posted on January 20, 2018 by dkoop

Tomorrow in our services we’ll be in Genesis chapter 12 looking the beginning of God’s people.

What the foundation is to the house, what the Constitution is to United States law, and what the periodic table of elements is to chemistry, the Book of Genesis is to the Bible. It’s basic. An understanding of the basic truths of Genesis, especially chapters 1-11, will give us the key we need to unlock the rest of Scripture.

Let’s review some of these basics.

God is real and we can trust Him

The Bible opens with a declaration that God exists: “In the beginning God” (1:1). Genesis presents no philosophical arguments to prove God’s existence; it just puts Him at the beginning of everything. When we open the Bible, God is there, and He was there before the Bible was written or even the universe was created.

The God we meet in Genesis 1-11 is not only eternal, but He’s also wise and powerful. He is a great God, and so great is His power that He only has to speak to make things happen. And so great is His wisdom that what He creates is to be—and it works! From the tiniest one-celled animal to the biggest galaxy, in all creation God’s power and wisdom are manifested.

And yet this great God is a personal God. He pays attention to us and wants to be our Lord and our Friend!

He is a holy God who will not condone sin. He judged the personal sins of Adam, Eve, and Cain, and also the corporate sins of the pre-flood population and the people at Babel. But at the same time, He is a God of love who created us in His image and longs to fellowship with us and reveal Himself to us. Our sins grieve Him, but in His grace, He forgives those who trust Him and will give them another chance.

The God of Genesis has a plan for mankind. He promised to send a Redeemer who would conquer Satan and bring salvation for the human race (3:15). He fulfilled that promise in sending Jesus Christ, the Son of God, to die on the cross for the sins of the world. You don’t really know God until you have trusted Jesus Christ to save you from your sins.

We live in God’s creation

The universe was created by God, not by chance. He made everything and He keeps everything going. The universe is not an accident. It’s the incredible masterpiece of a wise and powerful God who works everything according to the counsel of His own perfect will.

The complexity of the universe reveals the power and wisdom of God, and the beauty of the universe shows His love. He could have made a dull world, but He decorated His world with a riot of color and gave us a variety of plants, animals, and people to enjoy. Day after day and night after night, creation reveals the glory of God (Ps. 19).

Because this is God’s creation, we’re but stewards of what He’s given us. We must use the wealth of creation for the good of others and the glory of God, remembering that one day we’ll give God an accounting of our stewardship. To waste or exploit the wealth of creation, or heedlessly mar the beauty of creation, is to sin against God. It’s not just a matter of ecology; it’s a matter of theology: this is our Father’s world.

God generously gives to us “all things richly to enjoy” (1 Tim. 6:17), and we should thank Him for His gifts and use them wisely.

We are made in the image of God

Men and women are created, not evolved, and they’re created in the image of God. This is a tremendous privilege and a great responsibility. Every baby that’s conceived is made in God’s image and has the right to live, to be in a loving family, to come to know God through Jesus Christ, and to enjoy a life that’s purposeful and fulfilling.

Since God has given us a mind to think with, we need to read His Word and learn His truth. He’s given us a will to decide with, and we must make wise decisions that please Him. We have hearts to love Him, and we show this love by fellowshipping with Him and obeying His will. Our inner being is spiritual, and we need God dwelling within if we’re to have inner peace and satisfaction. “Thou hast made us for Thyself,” wrote Augustine, “and our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.”

The fact that we’re all created in the image of God means that we must love and protect one another. God gives life and only God can take it away. He’s given to human government the authority for capital punishment, for the murderer attacks the very image of God.

The image of God in us has been marred by sin, but that image can be restored as we walk with God and yield to His Spirit (2 Cor. 3:18). Since God made us, He knows what’s best for us; and He’s given us His Word as our guidebook for life. It’s the “manual of operations” and we must get acquainted with it. When all else fails, read the instructions.

Obedience is the key to joy and blessing

Our first parents disobeyed God’s Word and plunged the entire human race into sin. Cain disobeyed and became a wanderer. Noah obeyed and God saved him and his family from destruction and blessed them after the Flood was over. Whenever we disobey God, we break our communion with Him and lose the joy of His presence. Obedience is the key to blessing; disobedience is the way to unhappiness.

Satan is real, but is a defeated enemy

Satan is not eternal; he’s a created being. He’s not all-knowing, all-powerful, or present in all places at all times. He’s limited, but he wants you to think he’s as great as God and worthy of your obedience. Satan is very powerful and very subtle, and in ourselves we’re no match for him.

Satan wants to be god in our lives; he wants our worship and our service. He tempts us by questioning God’s Word: “Has God really said?” He promises to make us like God, but he never keeps that promise. The first step in victory over Satan is not to listen to his offers or believe his promises. We need to know and believe God’s truth if we want to detect and defeat the devil’s lies.

Satan has been defeated by Jesus Christ, and through Christ we can claim victory (Col. 2:15; Rom. 16:20; 1 Cor. 10:13).

Sin is Serious 

The world may call it a blunder, a mistake, a weakness, or an accident, but if it’s disobedience to God’s will, God calls it sin. Sin is serious because it leads to death and judgment. Like any loving Father, God is grieved when His children sin, and God judges sin. But God also forgives and provides the cleansing that we need.

When we sin, our tendency is to run away and try to hide, but this is the worst thing we can do. we can’t hide from God. The only thing to do is to repent, confess, and claim His forgiveness. God does give us another opportunity to obey Him and be blessed.

Sex is God’s idea and He knows best how it should be used

God made the first humans “male and female.” He did it not just so they could reproduce and keep the human race going, but also that they might learn to love and enjoy one another and discover their loving relationship to the Lord. His original intent was one man for one woman for one lifetime. The Bible isn’t a “sex manual,” but it does make some things very clear. It’s clear that sexual sins are destructive not only to the body and the inner person, but also to other people, especially one’s mate and family. God created man and woman for each other; any other combination is out of God’s will, no matter what society and the courts might say. God invented marriage, and sex outside the loving bonds of marriage is wrong.

There is one human race.

God separated the descendants of Noah into various tongues and nations, but they are all the sons and daughters of Adam and Eve. By the providence of God, some nations and races have made more rapid progress in this world than have others, but this doesn’t mean these progressive nations are better than other people. We are of one blood, and no race can claim to be superior to another race.

God’s People Have Responsibilities

In the Old Testament God forms a nation of people called Israel to bring his word and his salvation through Christ into the world. This doesn’t mean that they’re better than others, but only that they have God’s call upon them and therefore have a greater responsibility in this world. God chose them because He loved them, not because of their intrinsic worth (Deut. 7:6-11). God called Israel to bring blessing to the whole world, and because of Israel, we have the knowledge of the true God, the written Word of God, and most of all, the Savior Jesus Christ. No Christian should be guilty of anti-Semitism in thought, word, or deed.

God doesn’t change and is always in control

God is still on the throne and always knows what He’s doing. He’s long-suffering toward sinners, but eventually He judges sin and rewards the righteous. Whether it’s the farthest star or the most minute atom, God knows where everything is and what everything is doing; and everything He’s made will ultimately accomplish His will on this earth. God has built laws into this universe which, if we obey them, work for us, but if we disobey them, they work against us. Science is simply thinking God’s thoughts after Him, discovering these laws and putting them to work. The Creator has the right to “break” His own laws and do the miraculous.

Our relationship to God is based on faith

“But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him” (Heb. 11:6). We live on promises, not explanations.

Living for God is the most rewarding life possible

God has a different purpose for each of us to fulfill, and He enables us to fulfill it as we trust His Word and obey His will. Whatever He calls us to do can be done to the glory of God. While there are times when it seems like the righteous are suffering and the wicked are succeeding, in the end, the righteous will get their eternal reward and the wicked their eternal punishment.

The Christian life isn’t always the easiest life, but it is the most satisfying and rewarding life.

These are just a few of the basics found in Genesis 1-11, and illustrated and explained in the rest of the Bible. When we give our lives to Christ and build on these basic truths, we build on a solid foundation that can’t be moved. To ignore these basics is to build on the sand and make a life that won’t survive the storms of life or the final judgment from God, Jesus reminds us. Matthew 7:21-27.

I hope to see you tomorrow,

Darrell

Source:  Adapted from the Bible Exposition Commentary (BE Series) – Old Testament – The Pentateuch.
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The Secret Ingredient for an Intimate Marriage

Posted on January 19, 2018 by dkoop

What’s the secret ingredient?  Commitment.  It’s easy to promise but harder to keep.  What does commitment look like? How do I stay committed?  What one decision can I make that will keep me committed?  We will examine those questions in this post.

“A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife.”  Genesis 2:24.  The word “be united” in Hebrew is “dawbak” it literally means to glue together, to paste together, to adhere to.  It means to stick, to super glue.  Like welding, the bond becomes stronger than the two pieces you welded together. That’s what marriage is to be.

A great illustration is to take two colors of construction paper and glue them together.  That would be an illustration of what the Bible calls “being united.”  Once dry if I were to try to separate these two, some of the color one side would come off on other side. That’s what happens in a separation.  That’s what happens in a divorce.  That’s why it’s so painful.  When you’ve lived with somebody and then you separate, it tells both people, “There’s always a little of you left behind.”

And then we go out to the singles’ bar and we show the good side (the unglued side).  And another person who has been through a separation shows their good side.  They think each other is wonderful.  They don’t realize that on the back are scars that haven’t been dealt with.

To “be united” is an act of commitment.  It means to say “I do”.  The problem with our marriages is that many people who say “I do” — don’t.  Instead of marrying for better and for worse, people ought to just marry for good.  “I do” is a commitment.

What is God saying?  God is saying good marriages are a result of choice, not chance.  They don’t just happen.  They’re the result of choices you make.  Good marriages are a result of commitments, not convenience.

Some of us think, “I am trapped!  And I don’t know how to get out of this relationship.  I’ve got more than I bargained for — false advertising!  What I thought I was getting was not what I got.”  We think we’re stuck.  What do we do?  There’s nothing more hopeless than feeling like you’re trapped in a relationship that you cannot get out of.  What are you going to do?

The first commitment that Niki and I made is that, “we will never, never, never divorce.”  We said we’ll also never, never use the “d” word.   Divorce is not an option, murder? Maybe! But not divorce!

Some of you are already divorced.  I don’t mean your past.  Your past is over.  I mean the relationship you are in now or if you ever plan to be in a relationship. I mean right now. Make a commitment:  “If I ever marry again or if I’m married right now, I will not divorce.”

The other commitment that we made was this: “We will do whatever it takes and whatever it costs for as long as it takes to make this marriage work.”  Whatever it takes, no matter what it costs. That’s what it means to be united.  We’ll go to Christian counseling, retreats, conferences, read books, talk to others, whatever it takes.

Experts tell us that about 75% of all marriages need counseling at least some time in their married life.  Because some people are too proud to get it, they never get the help.  A lot of people will divorce before they go see a counselor.

I prefer Christian Counselors.  A non- Christian counselor does not have the resources available to change a marriage that a Christian does.

We made the commitment — whatever it takes and whatever it costs, for how long it takes, we will make this marriage work!  We usually never change until we get desperate.

“The only way any marriage will stay together is if you will it to stay together.”  It’s an act of volition.  You will it.  You choose to make the marriage work.  It will work!  Whatever it takes.  It’s a matter of choice.  Love is a choice.

The foundation of marriage is commitment, for the sake of your marriage, lock the escape hatch and throw the key away.  Never use the “D” word, it cracks the foundation.  Intimacy is built on security.  You can never be one flesh intimately, totally with your spouse if there’s always the possibility in the background that there is an option of divorce.  When the problems come it’s just too easy to walk out rather than face the problems even though divorce is very painful.

You leave and you be united.  Leaving and uniting are the process.

The Result: Total Intimacy  “be united…and they will become one flesh.”  vs 24

This is a blending of two lives.  God’s talking about more than just sex, although that is a very important part of it. He’s talking about total intimacy.

No situation is hopeless as long as you give the pieces to the Lord and are willing to change.  Change is scary.  Both of you are going to have to change.  So many marriages are missing this emotional bonding, but it can be developed if you follow God’s directions.  Commit to each other completely and throw out the word divorce.

It doesn’t happen overnight.  You can have a physical relationship overnight but to “become one flesh.”  Means it’s a process, an ongoing process.  It just doesn’t happen.  It happens through facing these situations that test our commitment.

In Marriage and Divorce magazine they gave these statistics:  Right now in the United States an average of 1 out of every 2 marriages ends in divorce.  That is not very good odds.  However, in a relationship where the couple were married in a church, the divorce rate is 1 out of 30. [One guy said he was married by the justice of the peace and he’s got neither since — justice or peace.]  In a marriage where a couple attends church and prays together, the divorce rate is 1 out of 1000.  That’s the difference Jesus Christ makes in a marriage!

It’s true that the family that prays together, stays together.

Marriage begins and continues with commitment.  I encourage you to make two simple commitments in your heart.

  1. First commit your life to Jesus Christ. “Jesus Christ, I need Your help in my marriage and life.”  You may be Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Mormon, Moslem, an atheist, an agnostic — it really doesn’t matter what your background is, you need a personal relationship to Christ.  I’m not talking about a religion.  I’m talking about a relationship to the One who made you.  “I need Your help in my marriage and my life.  Jesus Christ, come into my life and help me please.  Save my marriage and my life.”  If you prayed that He’ll hear you and you’ll find a new sense of power that you’ve never known about that will help you make the changes you know you need to make.  Commit your life to Christ.
  2. Commit yourself to your spouse. Would you right now in your heart determine to be united?  Would you say, “I will eliminate the possibility of divorce.  If I’m married now, if I ever marry in the future, I will not marry with the option of divorce.”  Some of you even now with your marriage under tension need to say, “I will do whatever it takes or costs to make it work.”  If you make those kinds of commitments in your life, you are on your way to total intimacy.

Darrell

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