Introduction to Gospel of John

The-Gospel-of-John‘It takes twenty one days to break an old habit… and twenty one days to form a new one’

What would your life look like if you deliberately set aside time each day to spend with God?’

Join us as we spend the next 21 days reading the book of John! 21 chapters about Jesus in 21 days!  It’s going to be a great journey with lots of discovery, insight and fun.

When you sign up, you will receive an email with “John” in the subject line for the next 21 days. (You can also check FB or this BLOG each day too) Each day’s email will contain expanded thoughts, some background, and commentary for each chapter in John.  Also each day’s email will also serve as an encouragement as I will be praying for you.  Your life will change after 21 days in God’s word.

 

For those who like to read introductions this next section is for you.  Here is general overview of the book of John.   Although it was written in the past be sure to see the sections, “Importance for Today”

Introduction

He spoke, and galaxies whirled into place. He spoke again, and the waters and lands were filled with plants and creatures.  Again he spoke, and man and woman were formed, thinking, speaking, and loving—words of personal and creative glory. Eternal, infinite, unlimited—he was, is, and always will be the Maker and Lord of all that exists.

And then he came in the flesh to a tiny spot in the universe called planet Earth—the mighty Creator becoming part of his creation, limited by time and space and susceptible to age, sickness, and death. Propelled by love, he came to rescue and save, offering forgiveness and life.

He is the Word: he is Jesus Christ.

It is this truth that the apostle John presents in this book. John’s Gospel is not a life of Christ; it is a powerful argument for the incarnation, a conclusive demonstration that Jesus was, and is, the very heaven-sent Son of God and the only source of eternal life.

 

Author:

          John the Apostle, son of Zebedee and Salome, and younger brother of James.

Thunder evokes fear and images of a pending storm. We would expect someone nicknamed Son of Thunder to be powerful, loud, and unpredictable. That’s what Jesus named two of his disciples—Zebedee’s sons, James and John (Mark 3:17)—for he knew their tendency to explode. Sure enough, when Jesus and the Twelve were rebuffed by a Samaritan village, these rough fishermen suggested calling down fire from heaven to destroy the whole village (Luke 9:52-56). Just before that incident, John had told Jesus that he had tried to stop a man from driving out demons because he was not a disciple. Jesus had explained that he didn’t have an exclusive club (Luke 9:49-50).

In addition to being forceful and angry, James and John also seem to have been quite self-centered. They requested seats of honor and power in the Kingdom. When the other disciples heard about what James and John had said, they became indignant (Mark 10:35-44). Yet Jesus also saw potential in these thundering brothers—he knew what they would become. So Jesus brought both, with Peter, into his inner circle, allowing them to see him transfigured on the mountain (Mark 9:2-13). And as Jesus was dying on the cross, he entrusted Mary, his mother, to John’s care (John 19:26-27).

John was following in his father Zebedee’s footsteps as a fisherman when Jesus called him (Matthew 4:21; Mark 1:19-20). His mother was Salome (Matthew 27:55-56; Mark 15:40). His brother, James, was also one of the Twelve and the first apostle to be martyred (Acts 12:2). They fished on the Sea of Galilee with Peter and Andrew.

One might predict that someone with a personality like John’s would self-destruct. Certainly this person would die in a fight or in a clash with the Roman government. At the very least, he would be discarded by the church as self-seeking and power-hungry. But such was not the case. Instead, John was transformed into someone who was strong but gentle, straightforward but loving, courageous but humble. There is no dramatic event to account for John’s transformation—it must have come from being with Jesus, being accepted, loved, and affirmed by the Lord, and then being filled with the Holy Spirit. So overwhelmed was John by Jesus that he did not mention himself by name in the Gospel that bears his name. Instead, he wrote of himself as “the disciple Jesus loved” (John 13:23; 19:26; 20:2; 21:20, 24). What a humble change for one who, at first, had wanted power and recognition.

John stands as a great example of Christ’s power to transform lives. Christ can change anyone—no one is beyond hope. Jesus accepted John as he was, a Son of Thunder, and changed him into what he would become, the apostle of love.

 

Date and Setting:

Written between a.d. 85–90 from Ephesus, after the destruction of Jerusalem (a.d. 70) and before John’s exile to the island of Patmos

The Gospel of John contains no references concerning where it was written. But according to the earliest traditions of the church, John wrote his Gospel from Ephesus.

We don’t know how old John was when Jesus called him. But assuming that John was a little younger than Jesus, John would have been in his eighties when writing this Gospel, which was quite old for a time when the life expectancy was much shorter. And considering the fact that all the other apostles had died as martyrs, John was indeed the church’s elder statesman. We can imagine him teaching and counseling the Christians in this well-established church, as well as doing some writing.

 

Audience:

New believers and searching non-believers

John does not reveal his audience directly, but several characteristics of the book provide insight into the people he was trying to reach.

  1. The Gospel of John differs greatly from the other three Gospels in content and approach. Matthew, Mark, and Luke (the Synoptic Gospels) present much historical data with few explanations or interpretations. John, however, selected key events and took time to explain and apply them. In addition, John chose to write about a few important, miraculous signs (20:30-31) in order to give a clear picture of the person of Christ.
  1. John illustrates the tension between faith and unbelief and emphasizes the importance of responding to Christ. He states this fact at the very beginning and carries it throughout the book (1:12).
  1. John uses simple vocabulary but chooses special words and loads them with meaning—for example, word, truth, light, darkness, life, and love.
  1. John repeats four main points: the true identity of Jesus, the necessity of responding to Christ in faith, the gift of eternal life, and the church’s mission to the world.

John presents the evidence for Jesus as the God-man and the Savior of the world, and he challenges readers to follow his Lord. So we can conclude that John wrote to unbelieving Asian Jews and Gentiles.

But John also wrote to Christians, to help strengthen their faith. John was the last surviving apostle and one of the few still living who had seen Jesus in the flesh. It would be easy for young believers—removed from Christ’s life, death, and resurrection by a generation and surrounded by a hostile government and unbelieving neighbors—to have doubts and second thoughts about their faith. Remember, this is the late eighties, after the terrible persecutions by Nero (a.d. 54–68) and the total destruction of Jerusalem (a.d. 70). The church had flourished under persecution, but believers needed reassurance of the truth of Christianity. John, the venerable eyewitness to all that Jesus had done and faithful follower of his Lord, would give that assurance through his personal account of the gospel story.

 

Occasion and Purpose:

 

John gives a clear and straightforward statement of his purpose for writing this book: “But these are written so that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing in him you will have life” (20:31). To achieve this purpose, John shows, throughout the Gospel, that Jesus was, in fact, the Christ, the Son of God, the prophesied one, and the only source of salvation. This is the dominant theme of the entire book.

The Gospel of John was written to convince those who had not seen Jesus to believe in him, to help believers deepen their faith, and to convince unbelievers to trust in Jesus Christ as their Savior. In addition, John had several other emphases worth noting. John showed that the Jewish leaders were completely wrong in rejecting Jesus as the Messiah. John continues this emphasis throughout the book. John also emphasized that Jesus is much greater than John the Baptist. It may be that some followers of John the Baptist were still claiming that he was more important than Jesus. Whatever the reason, John declared the preeminence of Christ and John the Baptist’s special role in preparing the way for him (see 1:6-8, 15-18, 19-27, 35-38; 3:25-30).

John focused on the deity and humanity of Jesus. It is possible that he did this to confront a heresy promoting the false notion that Jesus only seemed to be living a human life—that he was not fully human. John also mentioned Jesus’ family ties (2:12; 7:3-5), stated that Jesus became tired (4:6), and showed that Jesus really died on the cross (19:33-34). John clearly presented Jesus as the God-man. John also described the work of the Holy Spirit, assuring believers of the presence of the risen Christ. Through the Holy Spirit, Christians have Christ with them; they don’t have to face life alone. John spoke of the work of the Holy Spirit more than any other Gospel writer.

John reminded the believers that unbelief and opposition to God and his plans do not surprise God or thwart his purposes. This includes the betrayal by Judas (foretold by prophets and known by Jesus—6:64; 13:18; Psalm 41:9), the death of Jesus on the cross (a necessary part of God’s salvation plan—3:14-18), and the rejection of Christ by unbelievers (1:10-11). Although conflicts are inevitable, God is sovereign and in control, and his goals will be accomplished.

Because of John’s special purpose for writing this book, he described many incidents in the life of Christ that are not recorded in the other Gospels. These events include: John the Baptist declaring Jesus to be the Messiah, Jesus turning water into wine, Nicodemus visiting Jesus at night, Jesus talking to a Samaritan woman at the well, Jesus healing a government official’s son, Jesus healing a lame man by the pool, Jesus’ brothers ridiculing him, Jesus healing the man who was born blind, Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead, Jesus teaching about the Holy Spirit, Jesus teaching about the vine and the branches, and Jesus appearing to Thomas and reinstating Peter after his resurrection.

 

Message:

John discloses Jesus’ identity with his very first words, “In the beginning the Word already existed. He was with God, and he was God. He was in the beginning with God” (1:1-2); and the rest of the book continues the theme. John, the eyewitness, chose nine of Jesus’ miracles (or miraculous signs, as he calls them) to reveal his divine/human nature and his life-giving mission. These signs are (1) turning water to wine (2:1-11); (2) healing the official’s son (4:46-54); (3) healing the lame man at the pool of Bethesda (5:1-9); (4) feeding the 5,000 with just a few loaves and fish (6:1-14); (5) walking on the water (6:15-21); (6) restoring sight to the blind man (9:1-41); (7) raising Lazarus from the dead (11:1-44); (8) Jesus’ own resurrection (20:1-29), and, after the Resurrection; (9) giving the disciples an overwhelming catch of fish (21:1-14).

In every chapter Jesus’ deity is revealed. And Jesus’ true identity is underscored through the titles he is given—the Word, the only Son, Lamb of God, Son of God, true bread, life, resurrection, vine. And the formula is “I am.” When Jesus uses this phrase, he affirms his preexistence and eternal deity. Jesus says, I am the bread of life (6:35); I am the light of the world (8:12; 9:5); I am the gate (10:7); I am the good shepherd (10:11, 14); I am the resurrection and the life (11:25); I am the way, and the truth, and the life (14:6); and I am the true vine (15:1).

The main themes in the Gospel of John include: Jesus Christ, Son of God; eternal life; believing; Holy Spirit; and resurrection—because John’s purpose was to convince people to believe in Christ, it’s not surprising that his message follows the themes listed here. In order to trust Christ, a person must understand Jesus’ true identity, the promise of eternal life, the necessity of faith, and the resurrection of Christ. And to live for Christ, a person must understand the person and work of the Holy Spirit.

 

Jesus Christ, Son of God (1:1-18; 2:1-11; 4:46-54; 5:1-15; 6:5-14; 6:16-21; 9:1-12; 11:1-44; 19:1–20:30). Because this is a “Gospel,” the entire book tells about Jesus. But in relating the life of the Lord, John chose nine “signs” (miracles) that illustrate and prove Jesus’ true identity as God’s Son. These chosen signs (seven miracles plus the Resurrection) display Christ’s glory and reveal his true nature: (1) turning the water into wine (2:1-11); (2) healing the royal official’s son (4:46-54), (3) healing the invalid by the pool at Bethesda (5:1-15); (4) feeding the 5,000 (6:5-14); (5) walking on water (6:16-21); (6) healing a man blind from birth (9:1-41); (7) raising Lazarus from the dead (11:1-44); (8) rising from the dead (20:1-29); (9) giving the disciples an overwhelming catch of fish (21:1-14). John shows us that Jesus is unique as God’s special Son, yet he is fully God. Because he is fully God, Jesus is able to reveal God to us, clearly and accurately.

*Importance for today. Because Jesus is God, he has the nature, ability, and right to offer eternal life. When he died on the cross, he was the perfect sacrifice and only mediator between God and people (14:6). Because Jesus became a man, he identified fully with us, enduring temptation, persecution, hardship, and suffering. Through the Incarnation, the infinite, holy, and all-powerful God demonstrated his love for us. As believers in Christ, we must affirm both sides of his nature and not exclude or diminish one side in favor of the other. Jesus is fully God and fully man.

 

Eternal Life (3:15-16, 36; 4:14, 36; 5:24, 39-40; 6:27, 40, 47, 54, 58; 8:51; 10:10, 27-30; 11:25-26; 12:25, 49-50; 20:30-31). Jesus came to bring us life, eternal life. This life begins now, on this earth, through faith in Christ. Jesus said, “My purpose is to give life in all its fullness” (10:10). The life that Christ offers also continues beyond death. Obtaining eternal life is not automatic or magic. People aren’t saved just because Jesus became a man and died and rose again. Individuals must believe in Jesus; they must trust in him. John presents Jesus as the Good Shepherd who lays down his life for the sheep (10:11, 15, 17). His death is said to be a saving death—he is the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world (1:29, 36). But his sacrifice is applied only to those who repent and believe (1:12; 2:11; 3:15-16, 18, 36; and many other passages).

 

*Importance for today. Life on earth is short, and filled with struggles, suffering, and hardships. Of course, there are moments of ecstasy and joy, but for many those moments are very few. And because all human beings are mortal, eventually everyone dies. That description is not mere pessimism, but truth. But God offers hope amidst the suffering—eternal life. Through faith in Christ, we have abundant life now and life unending after we die. The assurance of eternal life gives hope, meaning, and purpose as we live each day. Jesus offers eternal life to us. We are invited to begin living in a personal, eternal relationship with him that begins now. Although we must grow old and die, we can have a new life that lasts forever by trusting Jesus.

 

Believing (1:12, 50; 2:11, 23; 3:15-18; 4:39-42, 48-53; 5:24-47; 6:30, 47, 64; 8:24, 31; 9:38; 10:25-42; 11:25-27; 12:37-46; 14:11-14; 16:9; 17:8, 20; 20:25-30). Belief in Jesus as the Messiah and Son of God is the central theme of this book and the desired response from all who read it. Knowing that Jesus is the Son of God and that eternal life is available only through him, people must believe in Jesus as their Savior and Lord. The first step toward eternal life is to believe the facts about Jesus. But having saving faith (“believing”) involves much more than mental assent to the truth. John emphasizes Jesus’ strong teaching that those who truly believe in Christ turn from their sin, follow him closely, and obey his teachings. The person who puts his or her faith in Christ (believes the facts about him, trusts him, follows close to him, and obeys his commands) is forgiven and gains eternal life.

 

*Importance for today. Believing is active, living, and continuous trust in Jesus as God. When we believe in his life, his words, his death, and his resurrection, we are cleansed from sin and receive power to follow him. But we must respond to Christ by believing. This believing begins with the facts about Jesus, but it must go deeper, involving total commitment to him. Do you truly believe in Jesus? Remember, too, that we also live in a world of skeptics. Most people won’t believe that something is true simply because we tell them, especially regarding religion. They need to see Jesus in action, to read about his claims and his miracles, and to understand his teachings. As we explain to relatives, friends, neighbors, and coworkers about how they can have eternal life, we need to present the evidence that Jesus is the Son of God and their only hope.

 

Holy Spirit (1:32-34; 3:5; 6:63; 7:39; 14:16-26; 15:26; 16:7-15). The first mention of the Holy Spirit in the Gospel of John is John the Baptist’s statement at Jesus’ baptism: “I saw the Holy Spirit descending” (1:32). He adds that Jesus will baptize “with the Holy Spirit” (1:33). We know, therefore, that Jesus possessed the Spirit. The main teaching about the Holy Spirit in the Gospel of John, however, describes him as the Counselor. This Holy Spirit would come and abide in the disciples after the departure of Jesus, to teach them, remind them of his words (14:26), and show them the truth (16:13). The Holy Spirit would bear witness to Jesus through the disciples before the world (15:26-27) and will do his convicting work in the hearts of men and women in the world (16:7-11).

All of these actions of the Holy Spirit are parallel to the work of Jesus on earth. Jesus claimed to be the way, the truth, and the life (14:6), and he preached about sin (8:24), righteousness (8:42-47), and judgment (9:39). Jesus taught his disciples that the Holy Spirit would come after he left the earth. The Holy Spirit would then indwell, guide, counsel, and comfort those who follow Jesus. Through the Holy Spirit, Christ’s presence and power are multiplied in all who believe.

 

*Importance for today. God has sent the Holy Spirit into the world to draw people to himself and to work in the lives of believers. As we read and study God’s word, the Holy Spirit will guide us into the truth (16:13), helping us understand about Christ and about God’s principles for living. One of our responsibilities as believers is to testify about Christ in the world (15:27), passing on what the Holy Spirit tells us (15:26). As we do this, we can be confident that the Holy Spirit will be working in the lives of men and women, convicting them of their sin and their need to trust Christ as Savior (16:7-11). We must know the Holy Spirit to understand all Jesus taught. We can experience Jesus’ love and guidance as we allow the Holy Spirit to work in us.

 

Resurrection (20:1–21:23). The greatest sign presented by John of the divinity of Jesus is his resurrection from the dead. Just as Jesus really lived as a man on the earth, he really died on the cross. The witnesses to Jesus’ death were many: the Roman soldiers (19:23-24, 32-34), the chief priests and other Jewish religious leaders (19:21), the crowd (19:20), a small collection of his loyal followers (19:25-27), and those who buried him, Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus (19:38-42).

But Jesus’ death was not the end of the story. He arose, triumphant over death. Mary Magdalene, John, and Peter found the tomb empty (20:1-9). Then Mary Magdalene met the risen Christ face to face (20:10-18). Later, the disciples saw Jesus alive (20:19-29; 21:1-23). The fact of the Resurrection changed the disciples’ lives—from fearful men who fled danger to courageous witnesses who took the gospel to every corner of their world, from discouraged and disillusioned followers to hopeful and joyful “Christ-ones” (i.e., “Christians”—ones belonging to Christ). The fact that Jesus rose from the dead is the foundation of the Christian faith.

 

*Importance for today. The resurrection of Christ from the dead is important for us for several reasons. Because Jesus rose from the dead, we know that he is, in fact, the Son of God and that all he taught is true. Jesus taught that whoever believes in him will have eternal life (3:16-18). Because Jesus is God and truthful, we know that his promise of eternal life is also true. Jesus is alive, therefore we worship and serve a living Savior. We can be changed as the disciples were and have the confidence that some day our bodies will be raised to live with Christ forever. The same power that raised Christ to life can give us the ability to follow him each day.

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Source: Life Application Concise New Testament Commentary

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Getting Real with Myself

Getting RealA mentor of mine says, “It’s what you don’t know about yourself that hurts you the most”  For me, its easy to live in self deception.  I think we all have a high capacity for deceiving ourselves.

Have you ever watched the TV show, “American Idol”  and noticed all of the people that think they can sing but they can’t?   Now you may think, How is that possible to not know you can’t sing?  It’s self deception.  Everyone of us is capable of doing the same thing!  Maybe our self deception is not about our singing,  but we self deceived about something.  Before we embarrass ourselves on national TV or look foolish to those around us, why not get real with our selves?

3 Ways to Get Real with Myself

1.      Pray

God speaks. He will show you things about yourself you are hiding or do not see.  He speaks through his word and through prayer.

David was king of Israel and had everything he could want. Life was good for him but he deceived himself in thinking he could commit adultery and get away with it.   People do this all the time.  “I won’t get caught.”  Get real! You will.

This is David’s prayer after his life fell apart from his affair and his attempts to cover it up:

Search me, oh God, and know my heart. Test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way of everlasting. Psalm 139:24

He prays to ensure he was real with himself. He asks God to test him, to see if there is any way or thought in him that was not right.  He is asking God to lead him.  I know it’s easy to think I can lead myself without God, but it’s just not true.

Pray and God will show you what needs to change.  The saying is true:  God loves you, but he loves you too much to leave you the way you are.

2.      Listen to those who love you.

 If more than one person that loves you tells you that you’ve got a problem with something, you have a problem with something.  God places people in your life for this very reason.   Do you have a person in your life who will tell you the truth?

For me one of those people has been my dad. Like the people on American Idol, I used to think I could sing.  I convinced the music minister in my church growing up to let me and a friend sing a duet.  I thought it was pretty good, my dad told me the truth.  I’m glad I learned the truth that singing is not one of my gifts.  You probably have people that have tried to tell you something about your life, do you listen?

For example, you may have an overspending problem and people have been trying to tell you, “This is not good, you are spending more than you bring in!”  Or “You have a temper, its scary when you lose control.”  Or “you drink too much.”

Listen to the people who love you!  Create an environment where someone will tell you the truth, because you’ve been stiff-arming them so long that they don’t even want to tell you anymore.

Do you want to be a better spouse? Ask your spouse what you can do.  Do you want to be a better parent? Ask your kids how.  It may surprise you what they say.  Do you want to do better at work, get a raise?  Ask.

He who listens to a life-giving rebuke will be at home among the wise. Proverbs 15:31

If we listen, we are wise.  If we do not listen the bible says we are not wise or another word for that is foolish.

3.      Change with God’s help

Change is painful.   If you decide to lose weight, when fewer calories are coming in, your body will let you know about it.  If you decide to exercise or quit whatever addiction you have, your body and mind will let you know about it!   I believe that some changes are easy.  Most change is hard.   If change is pain, then we also know the old saying is true as well, “No pain, no ______.”

Often the pain of staying where we are is greater than the pain of change.  That’s when change really occurs.

Have your tried to change and failed?  Don’t give up!   I have learned:  To try and fail doesn’t make me a failure, it makes me human.

Keep trying.  Some changes must be attempted again and again.  Take one step forward, if you find yourself two steps back. Take another step forward.   Don’t give up!

I have also learned that some changes must be made with the help of others and the help of God.  Other people will have to help you.  It’s called accountability, partnership or friendship.    We need support of others.  Do not do everything alone.  Ask for help.

Some changes must include God.  Failure may occur, so you will realize that you cannot do it alone.  You need God to help.  “I CAN do all things through CHRIST who STRENGTHENS me.”  Philippians 4:13.

Let me pray for us,  “God we acknowledge we want to get real and need to change.  We can only change with your help.  Give us strength when we are weak. Help us move through the pain with your presence.  Help us be the people you want us to be.  And when we have changed may you get the credit, because we did it with your help.”  Amen

Darrell

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Getting Real about Christ at Christmas (That’s My King Video)

 

For me to Getting Realget real about Christmas, I have acknowledge that Christmas is more than shopping, putting up decorations or getting my house ready for family.  Christmas is about Jesus.

Strange visitors from the East  are not only one of my favorite parts of the Christmas story, they also have taught me what Christmas is all about.

After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem 2 and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star in the east and have come to worship him.” Matthew 2:1-2

 

The wise men traveled hundreds of miles for one reason and one reason only, to worship Jesus.   Since Christmas is about Jesus what is the one thing I can give him that he doesn’t have?  My worship!

The Magi recognized that Jesus was a King.   He is also our king.    To help us understand who Jesus is, I would like to share something that has been inspirational to me.  I hope it inspires you to greater understanding of who Jesus is and helps you to worship him more.  It’s by Dr. S. M.  Lockridge.

 

Here’s a video:

 

 

Here are the words:

 

“The Bible says

He’s the King of the Jews
He’s the King of Israel
He’s the King of Righteousness
He’s the King of the Ages
He’s the King of Heaven
He’s the King of Glory
He’s the King of Kings
and He is the Lord of Lords

 

Now that’s my King!
David says
No means of measure can define His limitless love
No barriers can hinder Him from pouring out His blessing

 

He’s enduringly strong
He’s entirely sincere
He’s eternally steadfast
He’s immortally graceful
He’s imperially powerful
He’s impartially merciful

 

That’s my King!
He’s God’s Son
He’s the sinners’ Savior
He’s the centerpiece of civilization
He stands alone in Himself
He’s unique
He’s unparalleled
He’s unprecedented
He’s supreme
He’s pre-eminent
He’s the loftiest idea in literature
He’s the highest personality in philosophy
He’s the fundamental doctrine in true theology
He’s the cardinal necessity of spiritual religion

 

That’s my King!
He’s the miracle of the age
He’s the superlative of everything good that you choose to call Him
He’s the only one able to supply all of our needs simultaneously
He supplies strength for the weak
He’s available for the tempted and the tried
He sympathizes and He saves
He guards and He guides
He heals the sick
He cleansed the lepers
He forgives sinners
He discharges debtors
He delivers the captives
He defends the feeble
He blesses the young
He serves the unfortunate
He regards the aged
He rewards the diligent
And He beautifies the meek

 

Do you know Him?
My King is the key of knowledge
He’s the wellspring of wisdom
He’s the doorway of deliverance
He’s the pathway of peace
He’s the roadway of righteousness
He’s the highway of holiness
He’s the gateway of glory
He’s the master of the mighty
He’s the captain of the conquerors
He’s the head of the heroes
He’s the leader of the legislators
He’s the overseer of the overcomers
He’s the governor of governors
He’s the prince of princes
He’s the King of Kings
And He’s the Lord of Lords

 

That’s my King
That’s my King!
My King
His office is manifold
His promise is sure
His life is matchless
His goodness is limitless
His mercy is everlasting
His love never changes
His word is enough
His grace is sufficient
His reign is righteous
His yoke is easy
and His burden is light
I wish I could describe Him to you
He’s indescribable
He’s indescribable
He’s incomprehensible
He’s invincible
He’s irresistible
I’m trying to tell you
The heaven of heavens cannot contain Him
Let alone a man explain Him
You can’t get Him out of your mind
You can’t get Him off of your hands
You can’t outlive Him
And you can’t live without Him
The Pharisees couldn’t stand Him
but they found out they couldn’t stop Him
Pilate couldn’t find any fault in Him
The witnesses couldn’t get their testimonies to agree
And Herod couldn’t kill Him
Death couldn’t handle Him
And the grave couldn’t hold Him

 

That’s my King!

 

Dr. S. M. Lockridge

 

I hope this helps you worship Jesus this Christmas season!

 

Darrell

 

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What Do I Do about Damaging Relationships?

reducing personal damageRelationships:  your greatest spiritual asset or your worst spiritual curse.  The right people will encourage you and equip you. The wrong people can be distracting and destructive.

Can you can think of someone who is a always critical, always griping and constantly tempting you? Could you honestly say, “When I’m with this person, I feel worse about myself and life rather than better?

I think that is why the Apostle Paul said this in 1 Corinthians 15:33, Do not be misled. 

I think he said this because It’s so easy to be misled. We may think; ‘Hanging out with this person is not that big of a deal, I’m just trying to be their friend.” The bible says,

Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”  1 Corinthians 15:33

Here are two principles to effectively and Biblically reduce damaging relationships.

 1. SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

What does a boundary do? A boundary keeps the bad out and it keeps the good in. It’s not that the people are just horrible.  But there may be one part of the relationship that is dangerous, certain things that are said that you want to keep out.

Now some of you are thinking, ‘Oh, this doesn’t sound very Christian! , isn’t that the wrong thing to do?  Shouldn’t we be loving?’

Actually setting a healthy boundary is a very Christ-like thing to do. Think about this; Jesus loved everyone equally, but He did not treat everyone equally. He recruited 12 people to be His disciples, not 200. When He would go into a town to heal people, He would heal a few people out of the crowd and then He’d leave and sometimes He wouldn’t heal everybody.

Think about how He handled the Pharisees, the religious hypocrites. He had boundaries all of the time with them, “I’m not listening to you, I’m not telling you everything, I’m keeping you at an arm’s length.’ He had boundaries.

He even had boundaries with His very closest friends whenever they tried to take Him away from doing something God wanted Him to do.

Think about Peter, one of the most on-fire Jesus guys.  Jesus says; ‘I’m going to have to give my life and die for you.’  And Peter, with good intentions says, ‘No! You can’t die!

And look at what Jesus said as He put up a very firm boundary with Peter, Matthew 16:23:

Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the things of God, but the things of men.”  Matthew 16:23

In other words Peter, what’s you’re saying, it’s damaging. Even though you don’t mean it, the spiritual enemy is working through you to try to take me off of God’s best. ‘Get behind me Satan, I am not going to let you trip me up!’

Now, I do not recommend that you say to your mother-in-law, “Get behind me, Satan!”

But, what you have to do is be willing to set up some healthy boundaries for God’s bigger plan in your life.

The second thing you have to do if they continue to pollute is:

2.  SEPARATE FROM THE DAMAGING RELATIONSHIP

Now, I want to be very, very clear, I am not talking about divorce. This is not a marriage issue.

If you have a damaging marriage, it’s something both of you need to work on.  Go to a counselor, go to your Growth Group Coordinator,  you work through it.

*I’m also not talking about separating from your family. I’ve got to be honest, I think this is so sad to see how often a parent will say, ‘I’m writing my child off!’ Or to see a child, ‘I’m never speaking to my Dad again!’ No, I am not talking about family. I am not talking about covenant of marriage. You work through the pain.  The only time you’re going to separate is when there is a threat of extreme abuse and you are doing it for safety.   Jesus allows a separation from a spouse for adultery, nothing else.   (Matthew 19:9) None of this, ‘Well she said…, so we are not talking anymore!’ No, you work it through with spouse or family. I’m talking a broader set of relationships.

Here’s an example of a healthy separation from scripture.   Paul and Barnabas, they disagreed about one guy going on a mission trip. They clearly disagreed.” And because of their disagreement, they couldn’t continue to minister effectively because they were disagreeing.

So they just said, ‘Let’s go our separate ways. It was all on good terms. ‘You go minister there, I’ll go here.’ And they parted ways so that they could be more effective. (Acts 15:39-40)

In another example, the bible says,  “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?  2 Cor 6:14-16

In other words don’t partner up with nonbelievers. You want to have as many non-Christian friends that you can have, as you minister to them. But you are not going to date them if you are a Christian, you are certainly not going to marry them if you are a Christian, you are not going to become partners in a business deal, because ultimately you should have very different values.

Another great example of this when Joseph, in the Old Testament, was serving and honoring Potiphar’s family. Anything the family needed he was there for until Potiphar’s wife asked him to do something very inappropriate. She made a move on him sexually.  Watch as he immediately separate from this:  Scripture says:

(Potiphar’s wife) caught (Joseph) by his cloak and said, “Come to bed with me!” But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house. Genesis 39:12

She’s grabs clothes and he’s leaving them! Notice what he didn’t do. Notice he didn’t say, ‘Oh well, obviously you have a spiritual challenge, may I sit down and hold hands with you and pray with you about this and ask the Lord to deliver you from your lust issues.’ He didn’t do that. Yet sometimes that is what people do. He realized, this could be very, very dangerous and separated immediately.

Some modern examples:  If you are a teenager and someone is sending inappropriate sexual texts. You draw a healthy boundary, ‘Stop! I don’t want to see another one of those!’ If they continue, block them, change your number, tell a school counselor.  This is a healthy separation.

You’ve got a business partner and they are want to do something very unethical. You say, ‘No. We are not going to do that. They insist;  ‘It’s going to drive up profits.’ You say, ‘I can’t continue in this relationship. I will buy you out, you buy me out, but I am not going to compromise my values. Let’s  go our separate ways. I will still be nice to you but we are not going to be business partners.’

Flirting at the office:  If you are married and someone is flirting with you, that is damaging. You separate, transfer to another department. You do not go to break together, lunch together or travel together.  Separate or there is damage.

Ladies, you may be dating someone. He is a jerk, everybody knows it and tell you.   You can’t continue with someone who is obviously not God’s best. You say, ‘I am not settling for a fixer-upper. I am not going to insult God to say he couldn’t bring me someone special.  You break up. You have faith that God is going to bring you someone better.

If someone continues to tear you down and push you morally, you break it off. I am separating from you.  It sounds harsh, but there are times when you need to do this.

The reason you are doing it is so that you can be like Jesus, who at times would set a boundary so He could go be with God for prayer, one time it was for 40 days and 40 nights. So He could be so full of God and so full of His love and so full of His presence and so full of His Spirit. So that Jesus could then with strength go full on into a damaging world and help those who were hurting and open blind eyes and heal death ears and love the unlovable and touch the lepers, because He was so full of God’s presence.

This isn’t a self preservation, I’ve got to stay away from those dangerous people, this is an I’ve got to do what it takes to be so full of God that I can go and give His love to everyone who needs Him in the world. But you will never be able to do that if you continue to let the bad company corrupt your good character.

There are those of you who need to hear from the Spirit of God today.  You know it’s time to create a healthy boundary, or separate from damaging relationship so that you can please God.

Darrell

www.RidgeFellowship.com

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