Storms are Coming – Are we Ready?

 Patricia Goldman, the vice chairman of the National Transportation Safety Board, tells a story about a stewardess who, frustrated by passenger inattentiveness during her what-to-do-in-an-emergency talk at the beginning of each flight, changed the wording and said, “When the mask drops down in front of you, place it over your navel and continue to breathe normally.” Not a single passenger noticed.

Our parable today comes at the end of Jesus famous Sermon on the Mount.  Jesus had taught a huge multitude.  They had listened with sincerity, amazement, great interest and even gladness.  What Jesus tells them is that it is not enough to listen.  Even if you listen with appreciation and with emotions deeply stirred.  If our listening is to be of any worth, it must lead to action.  This same parable is told in Matthew and this is how Jesus introduces it.  He says in Matt 7:21, “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. (NIV) 

Notice the emphasis: Not everyone who says.. but only he who does.

Not merely listening but doing.   When Jesus says, “you must be born again”  He is speaking of spiritual rebirth,  this is not merely idealism.   It must be done.

This poem summarizes this truth well:

It is not what we eat but what we digest that makes us strong;

not what we gain but what we save that make us rich;

not what we read but what we remember that makes us learned;

and not what we profess but what we practice that makes us Christians.

Tony Campollo-“We have a lot of believers in Churches.  Big Deal the Devil believes but he is not a disciple.  We need disciples!”

Here’s our parable: Luke 6:46-49

46“Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say?

47 I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice.

48He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built.

49 But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.”  (NIV)

 I’m Building My Life 

The first fact Jesus brings home to our hearts in this story is that all who hear are builders.  There are wise builders and foolish builders.  Notice that Jesus regularly divides people into two groups: those who build correctly and those who don’t.  Those people who travel the wide road and those who travel the narrow road. Those people who are spiritually alive and those who are spiritually dead.   What could be more important?  We make all kinds of differentiations:  races, socioeconomic status, political parties and the list goes on!   In the end Jesus reminds us that there are two kinds of people: Heaven bound or hell bound.

  • Am I a Wise Builder?

The wise man is a builder.  He is constructing something.  He is constructing an eternal dwelling based on his life experiences.  He is building a soul home.

  • Am I a Foolish Builder?

The same is true for the foolish man.  He too is building.  He is constructing the hovel or hut or the sty in which he is to not only spend on earth but in eternity.  I may have stock in Dell or Disney but more importantly do I have stock in heaven?

We are building in all that we do.  We are building by every thought that we think.  Every word that we speak, every plan we make every ambition we cherish.  All of these go to make the material that enters into the structure we are building.

Some of us know better but are putting shoddy stuff into our buildings anyway, materials that will not stand the test of the storm.  The lies we tell and then try to justify them.  The borrowing of something that is not ours and planning not to return is really called stealing. The crude stories, or negative remarks or criticism we passed off a joke; acting concerned while receiving information, but intending to gossip or the taking of God’s name in vain.  I saw in a magazine that they are selling this shirt that says God’s last name isn’t damn-it.  When we know you should give 10% of your income but don’t.  Those times when we should have spoken up when but remained silent.  The time we clutched your money when there is a pressing need.  The time when ignored someone that needed you. The fact that we call ourselves Christ’s followers but will not stand up when it time to for God’s people to serve.

This is the stuff that gets pastors and teachers in trouble. We don’t want to hear it.  “Tell me about God’s love and grace not my problems!”  Some of us need to tear down our cardboard box dwellings and build on the rock of Christ Jesus.

What I am Building Will Be Tested

The buildings will be tested.  We are not to build for fair weather only.  We must build with a view to the times of crises.  We must build to weather the storms.  For sooner later TO ALL the testing comes. Upon everyone storm will break.

Dr. James Dobson tells of a river rafting experience on the Rogue River in Oregon. He says at one point in the ride that they came to the most treacherous part of the river where the water was white, wild and swift in the middle was an area called the coffee pot because it bubbled and was known to suck under rafts, boats and people.  Several had died there.  He tells of his experience of his boat capsizing and him nearly drowning. It was the scariest time of his life. He says life is like that river ride.  There are long stretches where the water is calm and beautiful.  You can see your reflection if you lean over the raft.  The scenery is gorgeous, the river peaceful.  You don’t know if life could ever be better. Then without much warning you can be propelled into white water. Thrown overboard, then your sucked under grasping for air, struggling to keep your head above the water and survive.  At the time when you think it is the worst, then you hit the white water no mercy.  Please understand this will happen sooner or later.   No one travels down the river of life without some turbulence.  You might as well be ready.

That is why it is necessary to be stabilized before the crises arrive.  This is where it comes out if you built wisely or foolishly. The building of the foolish man will be tested. The building of the wise man will be tested. The storms of life hit him too.  God never promised the exemption from conflict, but his presence through it.  He doesn’t allow us to dodge the storm or the raging river and have an easy time but to face the storm and turbulence.  To all the storm and turbulence will come.

The ship that is constructed to sail only upon the glassy sea under blue skies will not do in the ocean like ours where the heavens so often become black, thunder pounds, lightning flashes and where the sea is whipped by the winds and the waves swell and crash.

Our bridges are built to sustain more than their own weight. They must stand heavy loads.  Buildings too must be built to weather the storms.  I read of snow storm in Washington where snow fell for more than 36 hours.  The snow lay deep upon the ground and upon the roofs of houses.  There was theater there, that was a building of beauty, but the architect had only sunny days in mind and the strain of the 30 inches of snow caused the roof to crash and more than 100 lives were lost.

Christ tells us frankly that the test is coming. The storms are coming.  For some you have already experienced some storms and if you weren’t built upon the rock of Jesus you wonder how you would have made it.  Others of you have seen your lives or others’ lives crash in ruins.  Or maybe you haven’t experienced many storms yet.  You will.  We must be ready by building our lives upon the truth of Jesus Christ and His word.

Will you join me in building upon Christ?

Darrell

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5 Reasons Gratitude Can Change Your Life

  15 So let the peace that comes from Christ control your thoughts. And be grateful. Colossians 3:15 (CEV)

  1. Gratitude makes us feel happier

Studies have confirmed that having gratitude does in fact make you feel happier. Two psychologists, Dr. Robert A. Emmons from the University of California, and Dr. Michael E. McCullough from the University of Miami, have committed much of their research careers to studying the effects of gratitude.

In one such study, the researchers asked a group of people to write a few sentences every week about a particular topic. One group was instructed to write about things that didn’t make them happy. Another was instructed to write about things that they were grateful for. And the control group was instructed to write about things that had occurred but with no focus towards being positive or negative.

The results? The group that was instructed to write about things that they were grateful for were far more happier and optimistic about their lives than the group that had focused on things that had occurred in a negative light. When we’re grateful for things, it’s a natural occurrence to be happier about life. You realize the things you have rather than the things you don’t.

It’s far easier to go about your day in a state of appreciation when you’re grateful than when you’re not. This isn’t always easy to do because we all have what’s called a “Hedonic Set Point,” or a baseline level of happiness. When that threshold is crossed one way or another, we become either unhappy or happy. This is also referred to as the Hedonic Treadmill, often related to the incessant drive to accumulate things that only bring momentary bliss but don’t offer sustained happiness.

  1. Gratitude improves the quality of our lives

From your mental health and wellness, to your emotional fortitude, spiritual aptitude, and your physical strength can all be derived from the simple and basic behavior of gratitude. Gratitude can change your life by quite literally improving the quality of it. You’re the sum of all your parts, and it’s gratitude that can help to benefit each of those small parts.

Studies have uniquely linked gratitude with satisfaction of life and it’s no secret that people who are grateful for things are far more satisfied in their lives. There’s a sound stability that exists when you can appreciate the importance of things in your life, no matter what shape, size or form factor they might take on.

However, many think that it’s easy for successful people to be grateful because they have so much to be grateful for.  Gratitude isn’t just about success, money, jobs, cars, houses, or anything else. Do these things help to improve the quality of your life? Yes, sometimes, but these things can also mean more problems.

Gratitude must be present before the attainment of large sums of money or success. When it doesn’t, people can go off the rails. In Sudden Wealth Syndrome it’s easy to see why so many lottery winners and inheritance receives go bankrupt in a very short period after the windfall of cash arrives.

  1. Gratitude reduces our innermost fears

It’s hard to be fearful and grateful at the same time. Fear is what occurs when we’re left to dwell on topics that we feel are out of our control. We extrapolate the worst-possible scenarios and picture our future plight and our eventual demise when we’re living in a state of fear.

But by being grateful, fear can be overcome. When we’re utterly grateful for everything we have, including our problems, fear has little place to live in our minds. When we’re fearful of things that put us into a state of scarcity, such as not having enough money to pay our bills or put groceries into our fridge, we’re living in a state of lack rather than a state of abundance.

Being grateful, however, puts you into a state of abundance. It instills the belief that you’re thankful for what you have, right now, in this very moment, rather than worrying about what you don’t have or won’t have at some future point in time. Often, we save our gratitude for one day of the year — Thanksgiving. On that day, we question ourselves for not being grateful every other day of the year.

And why not? Why can’t we be grateful every day of the year? Why does it take a day that’s slated for giving thanks for us to stop and actually do so? We can completely abolish much of our fears by being grateful every single day. Decide, right now, that you’ll create the daily habit of gratitude and express what your grateful for through prayer, conversations and by writing out everything you have to be grateful for, and watch as your fears dissipate over time.

4. Gratitude shifts our focus

One of the reasons why gratitude can change your life is because it shifts your focus. Life is all about focus. Whatever we focus on, we move towards. When we live in a state of negativity, we live that out.  It’s easy to see something in a negative light when you’re focused on that. It’s easy to see all the problems and dilemmas surrounding a situation when your thinking is habitually geared towards that.

In turn, it’s also easy to see things in a positive light, even when problems arise. If you’ve ever met an always-positive person, you know just how true this statement is. Even when something goes wrong, they look for the silver-lining in the situation. If they can’t find one, they simply state that something good will eventually come out of whatever they’re going through.

We can easily move from a negative state to a positive state by recounting all of the things that we have to be grateful for on a daily basis either in prayer, verbally or by writing it down.

  1. Gratitude strengthens our faith

Gratitude transforms your faith by instilling the belief that you’re not alone and that whatever it is that you’re going through, it will pass, and on the other end you’ll emerge victorious. You’ll accomplish your goals, overcome your obstacles, and become more like Christ.   There’s an appreciation for all things that occur for those that are grateful.

35 Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean he no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? 37 No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. Romans 8:35-37 (NLT)

For me, it’s my belief in Jesus, that He loves me and that all things are working together, including all my problems.

Darrell

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Special thanks to Andy Edson our Campus Pastor in Jarrell and a counselor for sending these resources and ideas related to this topic.

Adapted from:

https://www.shutterfly.com/ideas/how-to-start-a-gratitude-journal/

https://www.wanderlustworker.com/7-crucial-reasons-why-gratitude-can-change-your-life/

 

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Palm Monday & Humility

The donkey awakened Monday morning, his mind still savoring the afterglow of the most exciting day of his life. Never before had he felt such a rush of pleasure and pride.

He walked into town and found a group of people by the well. “I’ll show myself to them,” he thought.

But they didn’t notice him. They went on drawing their water and paid him no mind.

“Throw your garments down,” he said crossly. “Don’t you know who I am?”

They just looked at him in amazement. Someone slapped him across the tail and ordered him to move.

“Miserable heathens!” he muttered to himself. “I’ll just go to the market where the good people are. They will remember me.”

But the same thing happened. No one paid any attention to the donkey as he strutted down the main street in front of the market place.

“The palm branches! Where are the palm branches!” he shouted. “Yesterday, you threw palm branches!”

Hurt and confused, the donkey returned home to his mother.

“Foolish child,” she said gently. “Don’t you realize that without Him, you are just an ordinary donkey?”

Source:  Wayne Rice Hot Illustrations for Youth Talks
(Youth Specialties, Inc. 1994) page 138

Just like the donkey who carried Jesus into the city of Jerusalem on Palm Sunday, we should be happy only serve Him, not needing attention or fame.  We have no need to boast about who we are or what we have done.  In the end Jesus is the star of the show.

Darrell

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What’s Your Excuse? – Luke 14:18-24

If you were invited to a wedding in the Caribbean (this summer after the virus cleared) with 5 star hotel accommodations, open bar and buffets on the beach all paid for, would you go?  In real life those invited to a free banquet in this parable would hardly refuse an invitation!  When this occurred in Jesus parable, no doubt his listeners sat up and listened to what happened next.

Am I Making Excuses?  (18-20)

“But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said, ‘I have just bought a field, and I must go and see it. Please excuse me.’ Another said, ‘I have just bought five yoke of oxen, and I’m on my way to try them out. Please excuse me.’  Still another said, ‘I just got married, so I can’t come.’”  (Vs. 18-20)

Jesus offered three examples of excuses offered to the host.  The excuses came from the ordinary course of business and family life.   They were polite.  “Please excuse me”

What do you think these same people if invited to another banquet a year later would have said?  Doubtless business would be more demanding; more acres and more livestock would have been purchased.  Family life would have been more engrossing.

 Were these good excuses?  Before you answer, consider this story.   A man asked his neighbor if he could borrow a ladder.   Sorry, I can’t let you borrow the ladder, said the neighbor, it’s leaning against the wall and it keeps the wall from falling down.  Why that’s ridiculous declared the man, your ladder doesn’t hold up the wall!”  True, the neighbor replied but when you don’t want to do something one excuse is as good as another.”

Most people agree that these business people would have not bought a piece of property or yolk of oxen sight unseen.  They would have looked at the property or the oxen first.  And newly married people went to parties as well to get established socially, it was insulting not to and a young man would want to look good in the eyes of the community for his social business reasons;  so this doesn’t make sense.  What all these boil down to are just excuses.

  • Excuses reveal my priorities.
  • Life consists of priorities and choices. I give my attention to my priorities. 

When I was single and very busy someone mentioned dating or girlfriend and I remarked that I was glad there wasn’t one because I don’t have time for her.  They said and I’ll never forget, “You will make time for what is important to you.”   So when the Lord brought Niki into my life I did make time for her and I still do because she is important to me.

 I will make time for what is important to me.

When you say, I don’t have time Lord, You have just revealed where the Lord is in your priorities.    So we make excuses… Our excuses are just as silly as theirs were.

 “The servant came back and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and ordered his servant…”  (Vs. 21)

 Notice that the host hurt.  How do you feel when people give you lame excuses?  We would be angry and the host in the story is angry too.

The spiritual meaning is that if you refuse God’s invitation to salvation, you risk receiving his anger.  Rejection hurts.  There is no pain like rejection.  God feels this too.

 If I refuse God’s invitation to salvation, I will receive his anger.

 Am I Inviting Others?  (21-24)

 If I have accepted God’s invitation to his party, I need to invite others.

  “…Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.”  (Vs. 21c&d)

Wait a minute! This is where the town beggars and outcasts stayed   YES!  “bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.”   These groups represent people that begged for a living; people that were dirty or drunk, bums and the homeless.  Normally they would not be invited to banquets.

  • Jesus is saying that salvation is free to all people, even those I might consider undesirable.

In college if you try to join a certain sorority or fraternity you may not be accepted.  They may black ball you.  Some churches even won’t receive you.  But Christ will!  No matter who you are or what you have done, Christ accepts you.

A minister in Minnesota observed the hurt feelings of and depression of high school students without dates on Senior Prom Night.  John Carlson decided to do something for those not in the popular and beautiful crowd.  He planned an alternative party for all those without dates on prom night.   It took place on the same night as the Senior Prom and the students loved it.  There was no stopping this party, the press heard about it and spread the news.  A large corporation decided to give watches to all those who attended.  Other companies soon joined in.  Soon a bag full of gifts was given to everyone at the alternative prom.  It had more to offer. Some students who even could get date wouldn’t so they could go.  It was better party.

Heaven is the best party and it lasts forever.  Some of the “best” people (in the world’s eyes), the rich and famous, may not be there.  They need to accept the invitation.   They are too busy making money, movies, partying to accept God’s invitation.

“‘Sir,’ the servant said, ‘what you ordered has been done, but there is still room.’”  (Vs. 22)

 This passage suggests the enormity of the party. There is always room for one  The salvation of God is open to all who will respond. 

 “Then the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the roads and country lanes and compel (KJV) them to come in, so that my house will be full.’” (Vs. 23)

We have searched the city now go into the country!   This is where the lepers, outlaws and outcasts would be.  The banquet is for all people, all of us together, all races, classes,  all people for Jesus.   We who have accepted God’s invitation to the Party, we need to compel others to come to the party.

Notice the phrase “make them or compel them to come in” This is great.  Some people will need some prodding.  We are not to force them. But we are to lovingly be persistent.   They may be reluctant at first to come.

  • Some people will need some prodding to come. They may be reluctant at first to come.  Don’t force them – be lovingly persistent. 

 “I tell you, not one of those men who were invited will get a taste of my banquet.”  (Vs. 24)

 If I fail to accept God’s invitation, I will not enjoy the blessings of his salvation. I will be separated from God. 

To each of us today Jesus issues the same urgent invitation, “Come for everything is now ready” Will you come?  If you’re a seeker or unbeliever, Christ invites you just as you are.  You don’t have to do anything except receive Jesus and his invitation to heaven.

 As a believer I am responsible to invite others.

 For those of you who are believers you are responsible to invite others:  friends, neighbors, and co-workers.  We are God’s servants to bring others.  Do you know how Peter came to be a disciple? His brother Andrew brought him to Jesus.  He said, “Hey Pete, come see this guy who may be the Messiah” Peter had to be invited!   Did you know Billy Graham became a Christian because someone invited him to a revival service?    I am not saying to be obnoxious or rude.  Just care enough to invite someone.  This day with the corona virus we can’t invite to an actual building but we can invite to our streaming service.  You don’t have to be a Billy Graham or an Apostle Peter but you could invite one who could become one.

One problem in American Christianity today is that we focus on “me, my needs, my spiritual growth” and our faith becomes stagnant and selfish.  We are not to focus on ourselves if we know Christ, but others.  If there is a problem in an area, one of the first things to look at is selfishness.  If your marriage is not right, one or both parties is being selfish.  If your Spiritual life is stagnant, ask yourself, “Am I being selfish?” We are to be inviting others and serving others.  This is what it is to be God’s servant.  This story is only a few chapters after Jesus sent out the 72 (his 12 disciples and 60 others) to the towns and villages around. (Luke 10)  They were sent, they were not to sit around and study or sing “kumbaya.” There are people ready to come, ready to be invited, ready to have someone who cares for them, but few who will invite, few who will care.  Will you believer, care enough to invite?

Darrell

 

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