Fasting, What is it?

Making My Life CountAs a church we will observe a time of fasting to prepare ourselves for Easter on April 20th.   We would love for you to join us! Here is a general overview of fasting:

What is fasting?  Abstaining from something, usually food, for spiritual purposes

 What does the Bible say?

  • Biblical examples:  Moses (Exodus 34:28; Deut. 9:9,18), David (2 Samuel 12:16), Elijah (1 Kings 19:8), Nehemiah (Nehemiah 1:4); Esther (Esther 4:16), Daniel (Daniel 1:12), Anna (Luke 2:37), Paul (Acts 14:23), Jesus (Matthew 4:1-2), the early church (13:2).
  • Jesus placed fasting on the same level as financial giving and prayer (Matthew 6:1-18).
  • Jesus said that there is a time for fasting (Matthew 9:15).
  • Paul says we should give ourselves at times to prayer and fasting (1 Corinthians 7:5).

 What is the purpose of fasting?

  • The primary purpose of fasting is to focus on God and to center our attention on Him.  In doing so, we glorify God (Zechariah 7:5).
  • Outer fasting is to lead to inner prayer, worship, and devotion.
  • Fasting is not for personal glory or any other selfish motives (Matthew 6:16-18).
  • Secondary purposes of fasting:  fasting can reveal non-essential things that control us and take precedence in our lives (1 Corinthians 6:12); fasting can increase the effectiveness of prayer (2 Samuel 12:16); fasting can bring guidance from God in decisions (Acts 14:23);  fasting can bring revelations (Acts 13:2); fasting can help our physical wellbeing (Daniel 1:12); fasting can aid in concentration; fasting can help bring deliverance for those who are in bondage.   But these benefits come only when fasting is our attempt to diligently seek God.

What are the different types of fasting?

  1. Absolute fast:  no food or water for a period of time, usually no more than three days. (Exodus 34:28; Esther 4:16)
  2. Normal fast:  only water, but no food or other drink (Nehemiah 1:4) Many try this for 40 days.
  3. Partial fast:  usually only water and juices. In the Daniel Fast that observed for  a longer period, add fruits, vegetables and grains (Daniel 1:12)
  4. Lent fast:  giving up something specific for the duration of Lent (Ash Wednesday – Easter Sunday)
  5. Other things to fast from:  people, media, telephone, certain activities/habits, etc.

We will fast in one of the ways listed above, once each week until Easter on April 20th. Some are doing a Daniel Fast for ten days before Easter.  Most of our church will join in a fast on Good Friday, April 18th, along with our day of prayer.

If you would like to join us you can comment below or write fast on your Connection Card on Sunday.  I am praying for you.  God is going to do great things as we focus on Him!

Darrell

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My Outreach Counts

Making My Life CountOn a dangerous seacoast where shipwrecks often occur, there was once a crude little lifesaving station. The building was no more than a hut, and there was only one boat; but the few devoted members kept a constant watch over the sea.  With little thought for themselves, they went out day and night, tirelessly searching for the lost.  Some of those who were saved wanted to be associated with the station and give their time, money, and effort to support the work. New boats were bought and new crews trained. The little lifesaving station grew.

Some of these older members of the lifesaving station were unhappy that the building was so crude and poorly equipped. They felt that a more comfortable place should be provided as the first refuge of those who were saved from the sea. They replaced the emergency cots with beds and put better furniture in the enlarged building. Now the lifesaving station became a popular gathering place for its members, and they decorated it beautifully and furnished it exquisitely because they used it as sort of a club. Fewer members were now interested in going to sea on lifesaving missions, so they hired lifeboat crews to do this work. The lifesaving motif still prevailed in this club’s decoration, and there was a memorial lifeboat in the room where the club initiations were held.

One day a large ship was wrecked off the coast, and the hired crews brought in boatloads of cold, wet, half-drowned people. They were dirty and sick, and some of them were foreigners. The beautiful new club was in chaos. Immediately, the property committee hired someone to rig up a shower house outside the club, where victims of shipwrecks could be cleaned up before coming inside.

At the next meeting, there was a split in the club membership. Most of the members wanted to stop the club’s lifesaving activities because they felt they were unpleasant and a hindrance to the normal social life of the club. A small number of members insisted upon lifesaving as their primary purpose and pointed out that they were still called a lifesaving station. The small group’s members were voted down and told that if they wanted to save lives, they could begin their own lifesaving station down the coast.

They did.

As the years went by, however, the new station experienced the same changes that had occurred in the old station. It evolved into a club, and yet another lifesaving station was founded. History continued to repeat itself, and if you visit that seacoast today, you will find a number of exclusive clubs along that shore.  Shipwrecks are frequent in those waters, but most of the passengers drown.[1]

As Jesus disciples our primary task is lifesaving or reaching others in His name. (See Matthew 28:19.)  Jesus said, “He came to seek and save the lost”[2]   Save them from what?  “The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Jesus Christ[3]  Our sins or shortcomings cause death, Jesus is the lifesaver!  Unfortunately, we sometimes forget our purpose.

We need to recover our passion for lifesaving.   At Easter this is great reminder! He died for our sins and rose from the dead. We too have new life in Jesus.  It’s why we do door hangers,  local and global outreach, loads of love, and more.  I pray your heart and mine will never forget our primary purpose to reach others with the life saving message of Jesus.

Darrell

[1] The Life Saving Station, Youth Specialties, 2011

[2] Luke 19:10

[3] Romans 6:23

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Israel 2014

A mission group from The Ridge Fellowship  in partnership Intimate Life Ministries traveled to Israel in March.   Our goal is to support and encourage several schools, missionaries and ministries in the Holy Land as they share the gospel.  We seek to literally fulfill Acts 1:8 “You will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria and to the ends of the earth.”    

Special thanks to our Ridge Fellowship family for the items you provided me to give out!

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We packed and brought (about 70 pounds of stuff!)  for the students in the schools:  candy and snacks,  Life Books (Gospel of John) for the Jr. High & High School students; Coffee, tea and pop tarts for the missionary families and ministry workers;and some books for  The Jerusalem School Bethlehem school library.

 

2014-03-12 12.03.53The first day we spent time in Bethlehem at the Jerusalem School Bethlehem.  It’s a Christian school that’s serving the Arab population in Bethlehem.

Pictured to the left is Ms Grace the school’s principle.  She and her family are Arab believers from Bethlehem and trace their ancestry in area back hundreds of years.

 

 

 

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Pictured left are some kindergartners enjoying the candy we brought them.

 

 

 

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Aaron Alexander, Lewis’s son teaches 5th grade at the school.  Aaron is pictured left with his class.

 

 

 

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An Arab student reading her Gospel of John that we gave her.

Special thanks to the Gideon’s  for providing these Life Books for us to distribute!

 

 

 

 

 

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Then we went to Bethlehem Bible College.  This is an interdenominational school that prepares students to become teachers, pastors, youth directors and more.  Lewis did a relational training from Intimate Life Ministries to some of the faculty, students and teachers from there and Jerusalem School Bethlehem.

 

 

 

 

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Bethlehem is the city where Jesus was born. Pictured left is the Church of the Nativity which is built over the cave thought to be the birthplace of Jesus.

 

Built originally in 327 AD by Emperor Constantine, some believe its the oldest church still in existence.

Other facts I learned about Bethlehem in the present day:  The Christian population of Israel is about 2%.  So there is a lot of work to be done!  Of the 2%,  most of Christian’s live in Bethlehem.  However a wall was built around Bethlehem with strict military check points in or out.  This was due to a some fighting that took place there with the Second Intifada.

Personally I am grieved that the people there, especially the Christians are not free but literally prisoners in their own city.

2014-03-14 19.53.16Then we went up to Jerusalem, left is a city gate built by the Romans and used during the time of Jesus.  Notice how it is below the current street level.  In the ancient world they would keep rebuilding on top of older structures which are beneath.  Archaeologists usually dig down into layers of history.

 

 

 

 

 

Below, we are on the Mount of Olives overlooking the old city of Jerusalem at night

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Below is the Judean Wilderness or dessert.  This is where Jesus fasted for forty days and nights.  (Matt 4:1, Mark 1:13, Luke 4:2)  The structure in the cliff is a Greek Orthodox Monastery.

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2014-03-15 14.55.17We did another relational training at the Tantur Institute in Jerusalem. Our hosts were Dr. Doug Magnuson and his wife Patty.  They oversee The Middle East Studies Program.  Lewis Alexander does most of the training but was kind of enough ask me to assist and share about our church.

Students in this program are required serve once a week in Bethlehem or Jerusalem at a Nursing Home, local school or helping underprivileged families.  Doug and Patty have offered to let us (group members from The Ridge) serve with them in touching lives in the Holy Land.

 

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We attended a contemporary church that meets on Saturday nights.  American teachers and students mostly attend as well as some Palestinian believers.

 

 

IMG_0685I was privileged to give the message at the church that weekend.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Pictured left with Lewis and I are his son Aaron and Samir who is a believer from Jordan that oversees a counseling and relational care ministry there.  In the red, Alabama shirt is Jamison Creel. He served as our tour guide and is the superintendent of the Jerusalem School of Bethlehem and the pastor of the local contemporary church  that we mentioned above.  He is a man of God and has a great ministry in the Holy Land.

2014-03-16 12.50.44Other sites we got to see were:  Jericho.

Pictured left is the base of a wall tower dating to the Old Testament time of Joshua. (Joshua 6)

In the New Testament, Jericho is where Jesus encountered Zacchaeus (Luke 19: 1-10) and Blind Bartimaeus (Mark 10:46-52)

 

 

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Some say that Jericho is the oldest continually inhabited city in the world.  It has ideal growing weather and many springs.

 

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Pictured left is the Jordan River. This is the traditional baptism site that John the Baptist used and where Jesus was baptized (Mark 1:4-11) Even today many people get baptized there.

Across the river is border of the country Jordan.  The water is muddy because of recent rainfall in the area.

The purpose of the trip was to continue to foster ministry partnerships.  The hope of future trips is to have half of the trip seeing sites like above and the other to serve in the schools, ministries and communities.  The ministry leaders there said that as American believers our “presence” speaks volumes and is an encouragement to them.   We will return in March 2015 during our school’ system’s scheduled Spring Break.  Are you in interested in going?

Darrell

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My Hospitality Counts

Making My Life CountNever believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.— Margaret Mead

“You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” You’ve heard this and know that is absolutely true. How many restaurants, churches, or businesses do you have filed in your “I’ll never go back there.” file? For many of us most of those places failed to impress us on our first experience.

To me our church ought to be the friendliest place in the community. Hospitality for us is a must!

Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers” -Hebrews 13:2 (NIV)

People will plug into a church that excels in really loving one another. There is no better compliment I can receive from a first time guest than, “Wow this is the friendliest church I have ever been to!”

If our church isn’t welcoming, the music, messages, kid’s and youth ministries and outreach opportunities won’t get noticed because people just want to get out. If our church isn’t friendly people won’t feel the Spirit move them. Great music, messages and ministries serve to attract people, but if we fail to display love and care people will not feel compelled to make our church their home. Church doesn’t always have to be about pondering the deepest theological questions. Simple hospitality provides a natural platform for feeling welcome, forming friendships and growing spiritually.

Seven Minutes!
In the first seven minutes of their experience with our church, our guests will decide whether or not they’re going to come back. Somewhere between the parking lot, the kid’s area, restrooms or kitchen the seven minutes pass. They should know they matter to us before they hear how much they matter to God.

Maybe that seems unfair but, fair or not, it’s true. Blame it on the power of the God-given subconscious mind.

Obviously, our guests aren’t making a well-thought-out decision based on the integrity of the message (they haven’t heard it yet), the character of our church staff (they’ve never met them).  They’re not weighing the pros and cons of our worship style and theological viewpoints.

Instead, they are taking in clues about our church’s atmosphere and people’s friendliness on a much more rudimentary level. Their subconscious minds are working overtime to evaluate their compatibility with this new environment. First impressions include the parking lot and greeters. First impressions also include how our facility is kept up and maintained including smells and cleanliness.

When God entrusts us with first-time guests, we have an incredible responsibility.

Hospitality does make a difference, it opens both doors and hearts and can have just as powerful of an impact on the one practicing it as the one who receives. Hospitality doesn’t have to be expensive but it must be excellent. The last time I checked smiles, handshakes, kind words, hugs and authenticity are free. Will you join me in making a difference?

Darrell

www.RidgeFellowship.com

“Never get tired of doing little things for others. Sometimes, those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.”— Unknown

 

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