3 Reasons to Be Generous

Hope AgainThree reasons to be Generous (Philippians 4:14-15):

 1.  When I give it is a lifeline to others.

 As Paul wrote Philippians he sat in jail.  Did the Romans provide cable TV, a workout room and all that Paul needed?  No.  He was in great need in prison and the Philippians gave to meet his needs.

 14 Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles. 15 …not one church shared with me in the matter of giving and receiving, except you only; 16 for even when I was in Thessalonica, you sent me aid again and again when I was in need.

 Paul was in need and their gift was a lifeline to him.

Have you ever received a gift that was just what you needed?  Sure.  Have you ever given a gift that was so needed for the one you gave it to? Sure.  Giving means so much when it meets needs that are indescribable.   In our Growth Groups when members give to another member in hard times those gifts are a life line to the person in need.

Paul needed money to take the gospel to the Roman Empire. The offerings of the Philippians were a lifeline to him.

Consider this, the offerings given supplied Paul with pen and paper.  Then he was able to write this letter that we still read today!  Offerings have a lasting effect.  We have a New Testament because church members in Philippi gave so that Paul could have his needs met and do the ministry God called him too.  He needed the money.

Even Jesus used money to do his ministry, did you know it says “Judas carried the money purse.” (John 13:29).

Did you know that people gave to support Jesus ministry?

3  Joanna, the wife of Chuza, Herod’s business manager; Susanna; and many others who were contributing their own resources to support Jesus and his disciples. Luke 8:3 (NLT) Money is necessary for God’s work.

I don’t know why God doesn’t spell out in the stars, “Jesus died for your sins, accept him and live.” He could but he partners with us and with churches to spread his word. From the beginning in the Old Testament people had to give to provide for the sacrifices, for the temple, the articles in the temple, the priests, all this was provided by the people’s giving.  They were to give. No ifs ands or butt’s.   When you say, “well God will provide for his church,” he does through you.  You become a lifeline to others spiritually.

When I pray and say, “God we have needs as a church, Help us, provide for us!” God always tells me, encourage the people to give!”   This is the way.  I expect a miracle; God expects obedience from his people.  You become the miracle.

I have always taken for granted all that has been given to allow me to be where I am spiritually.  You probably have too. As a child I sat in chairs, pews, and Sunday school rooms, fellowship halls that others gave for.  I listened to songs and messages that others gave to provide.  I am a believer because people gave that I might hear the gospel and trust Christ.  What a lifeline those gifts were to my life! Have you ever thought about what had to be given for you have the faith and the spiritual insights and blessings you have been given? Yes Jesus gave but how many other believers have given from generation to generation to pass on the gospel.

It wasn’t until we began building this church that I realized all it takes to build a church and how I took for granted every church I had ever been in.  Everything that is in our church we have because of giving:  the chairs you sit in, the floor beneath your feet, the screen, the projector, the instruments, the coffee, the programs, the crafts, lessons and snacks for your kids, the sound, the music, the lawn and flower beds, the list could go on and on and on of all the other things that go into preparing the weekly service – It all took giving and will continue to each week.

Now what is your soul worth?

What are the souls of the people in our community worth? They are worth your giving and offerings. You are to be a lifeline.

  1. When I give it is an investment to my account.

 17 Not that I am looking for a gift, but I am looking for what may be credited to your account.

Credited,” this is a banking term.  In the Greek it means, “accumulated interest”.

Did you know God pays interest?  Jesus said 100 times would be returned to him who gives up for the gospel. (Mark 10:30)  One hundred times is 10,000% interest.  Wouldn’t you like to have that kind of interest on your CD’s money market accounts, mutual funds or stocks?    Paul says I want you to be aware that you will receive the reward for your giving.

Think of your bank account right now your earthly account.  Is there enough in there?  Probably not, no one ever thinks they have enough. What about your heavenly bank account?  What have you deposited?  I wish every Christian worried about their heavenly bank account as much as their earthly bank account.

God is recording anything and everything that you give.  Every time you give something is recorded in heaven.  Jesus said, even “a cup of cold water given in his name is written down.” (Matt. 10:42)  Every time, every time you’re generous with your money to his work to the church it is recorded and rewarded.  It is an investment and the bank of Heaven pays interest.

Suppose I go to a bank and say, “How much interest have I accumulated?”  The banker would say, “How much have you deposited?”  I say, “Nothing.”  He’d say, “Let me tell you how this works Mr. Koop:  You don’t get any interest if you don’t make any investment.”  That’s true in the Christian life.

Jesus said, “store up treasure in heaven,” How? By giving, by investing in God’s work. Invest in people who are going there.  Paul says, You have been sacrificial in your giving.  You gave and it was an encouragement to me.  But more than that it was an investment for yourself.

George Carroll was a wealthy Texan who gave a lot of money to his church and to Baylor University.  They named a building after him, the Carroll Science building because of his gifts to the university.   During the depression he lost most of his wealth.  One day he was given a tour of Baylor by the president Dr. Brooks.  Dr Brooks said, “Are you sorry for the money you gave away?”  George Carroll said without hesitation, “No because the money kept for myself is all gone but that I gave away still remains.” It is true for us and in eternity.

  1. When I give it is pleasing to God

18 …They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, pleasing to God.

God loves you period. You can’t earn God’s love, he loves unconditionally.  It is God’s nature to love you no matter what, but the Bible says we can please God.

For instance I love Kaleb, Noel and Danielle. I wish my love were more unconditional like God’s, but I still love them even when they don’t mind, when they are disrespectful and disobedient.  But am I pleased when they mind?  When they share?  Absolutely, I am thrilled! “That’s it! Good boy, good girl, Daddy is proud of you!”  God is the same way; he is pleased when we share, give, support others and His ministry work.

Do you want to please God?  Have you ever wondered what it is that pleases God?  The most pleasing thing you can do for God is sacrificial giving.  It is done in faith and “without faith it is impossible to please God.” (Heb. 11:6)   Jesus Christ was a total sacrificial giver.  He came to earth.  He gave up everything in heaven and came to earth, died on the cross, gave up all.  Sacrificial. That describes His life — a sacrifice.  When you are most like Christ, you are sacrificial.  When you’re giving to God’s work generous, sharing for the sake of growing God’s kingdom, you are the most like Christ.  And it pleases God.

It says it’s a “fragrant offering“.  This refers back to Leviticus, which talks about presenting a young bull for an offering.  In the Old Testament they would lay the offering (the carcass of the bull) on the altar and “burn it all”, creating “an aroma pleasing to the Lord”(Lev. 1:9) To me burnt flesh doesn’t sound like a pleasing aroma.

But like my dad says who has a herd of cattle, “Smell that cow poop? That’s the smell of money son!”  Whatever is the most pleasing smell to you, that is sensation God feels when you give generously

The point is a sacrificial giver is a beautiful person; you love to be around them.  Giving is an act of worship.  That’s why giving a part of our worship service.  It’s just as important as singing, praying or teaching. Giving is an act of worship.

Coach Bear Bryant a legendary coach in an interview with Sports Illustrated said that there are different types of football players, “There are those who have ability and know it” and there are those who don’t have ability but don’t know it” The one that makes you the proudest is the one who isn’t good enough to play but puts so much into it that he does anyway.  We have a lot of those” The ones that have ability and don’t use it are the ones that eat your guts out!”

In the same way God is pleased and proud when you give when you can’t and when you can and don’t it’s like it eats his guts out.

Did you know God has feelings attached to our offerings?  He does, it moves him deeply! Jesus said it like this, “In as much as you have done unto the least of these, my brethren, you have done it unto Me.”

When Kaleb was about a year old I was at HEB with Kaleb, and he had a cough and was sneezing.  At HEB he sneezed and I should have been more prepared- I was an unprepared dad (I still am) Kaleb had a huge amount of snot on his lip, like a big old mustache (I know you want a good description before lunch) but it was annoying I felt like I had snot on me and I didn’t have a Kleenex, I was ready to use my sleeve, but immediately a lady came up with a Kleenex and wiped his nose.  I tell you it was like she wiped my nose.  My feelings have made roots into Kaleb’s life and feelings.  As a parent you know this.  If someone gives to your child it is like giving to you.

God is the same way he has his feelings like roots in others. He loves the people that are not in this building yet because they don’t know him.  When you give so that the gospel goes out to people, in a church, in the community, it is an investment in eternity and it is a sacrifice pleasing to God.

I hope you can join me and be generous this Christmas season.

Darrell

www.RidgeFellowship.com

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How to Have Less Stress and More Peace This Holiday Season

Hope AgainIn the last post we looked at 3 stress reducers this holiday season from Philippians 4, now we’ll look at one more stress reducer and a guarantee of peace.  To have less stress…

Think About The Right Things

To reduce stress in your life you must change the way your think. The stress is in yourself not outside.  Your mind is a special gift from God.  Your mind is capable of storing over 100 trillion thoughts.  It can handle enormous things.  You have been given by God the freedom to choose what you think about.

finally brothers, whatever is true … noble .. right .. pure … lovely … admirable — If anything is excellent or praiseworthy — think about such things.” Philippians 4:8

You need to choose what you think about and think about the right things. What we put into our minds affects our lives.

What I see that some people allow to enter their minds, no wonder they are under stress.  Many people, even Christians, are totally indiscriminate about what they allow to enter their minds.  They are allowing all kinds of trash garbage and reading material and movies and songs that are downers.  Then they wonder why they are depressed.  What you think affects the way you feel; the way you feel affects the way you act.  Guard your mind.  Keep your mind on the right things.

Paul is saying this involves a deliberate, conscious choice. Change the channels of your mind.  When a thought comes into your mind, ask “Is this true, noble, right…?”  If it’s not, reject it.

These eight words are eight filters.  If the thoughts are not: true … noble .. right .. pure … lovely … admirable…excellent or praiseworthy.  Don’t think about them.  Don’t allow them to get into your mind, because it’s going to create stress.

Proverbs 23:7 “As a man thinks in his heart, so he is.”  (KJV) What dominates your mind?  What do you think about the most?  The root cause of stress is the way I choose to think.

Insight:      Whatever I think about is what I am becoming.

If you don’t like the way you’re headed, change what you think about.  Change the direction of your thought life.

THE RESULT

 “If you do this you will experience God’s Peace which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand.  His peace will keep your thoughts and your heart quiet and at rest as you trust in Christ Jesus.”   v. 7.

There is a promise of guaranteed peace of mind.  People are looking everywhere for peace of mind.  They try pills, fads, therapy, rock crystals, stress reduction seminars and listen to tapes, books — anything to give just a little peace of mind. Paul says, God’s peace is a gift to you.  It is a gift that cannot be explained, duplicated, fabricated or understood.  It is the sense of peace that comes over your life.

How do I maintain that kind of peace?

“… as you trust in Christ Jesus.”  Paul is not taking about a religion; he’s talking about a relationship with God’s Son Jesus Christ.  At The Ridge we say to KNOW Christ.  You were made with a God-shaped vacuum in your life and when you try to fill that with anything else it’s like trying to put a square into a round hole — it doesn’t fit.  We try to fill our lives with popularity, power, pleasure, possessions or prestige and they don’t fit.  God made you to KNOW Him.  Nobody is here on the earth by accident.  He made you for a purpose.  The starting point of that purpose is to understand that He made you for a relationship.  He wants you to KNOW Him.  And when you know Him there is a sense of peace that comes into your life.  Then you begin to GROW like Him.  This is process.   Start that relationship, continue to grow by praying, thinking about what is right and being in a Growth Group.

This passage also says, “His peace will keep your thoughts…” The word “keep” in the Greek is a military term.  It means a sentry guard, a garrison, or a detachment of soldiers.  The book of Philippians was written to a group of people who lived in the city of Philippi in Greece.  The city of Philippi was a Roman colony that was protected by the Roman legion.  The people knew this word very well for they knew the Roman legion kept the peace in Philippi.  Paul used the word that he knew everybody would know and says, that’s the way God will guard your mind and heart when you have a relationship with Jesus Christ and trust Him moment by moment.  Instead of worrying about everything, you pray about everything.  And you thank God for all things and keep your mind on the right things.   God will put a garrison, a sentry guard, around your heart and when worry comes knocking at the door He will protect you with His peace.

What’s got you worried?  Finances?  the economy?  your health? your marriage relationship?  your kids?  your career?  What makes you anxious, that raises the stress level in your life?

How do you normally respond to stress?  What is your favorite pattern?

This is God’s alternative to dealing with stress.  I Peter 5:7 “Throw the whole weight of your concern on God because He considers you His personal concern.”  He carried your sins on the cross, He will carry your stress in the present.  Give it to Him.

Let me pray for you,

“God at this time of the year many people are stressed out.  I pray that your words to us would reduce stress in our lives.  Help us to not be anxious because we are praying about all things.  We are excited about the ways you work in our lives that we can GROW like you.”    Amen

Darrell

www.RidgeFellowship.com

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3 Stress Reducers This Holiday Season

Hope AgainAnother Black Friday has come and gone! It emphasizes the chaos of the Christmas season.  It’s the most stressful time of the year.  We worry about presents, pleasing people, finances, travel and the list goes on!   Let’s look at a strategy for dealing with seasonal stress.  Paul gives us three very simple and profound statements on how to manage stress in your life.

 This verse, perfect for this time of year and every day after!

“Do not be anxious about anything but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”   Philippians 4:6

 Three Stress-Reducers

  1. Worry Less

Do not be anxious about anything.”

Worry is a kill joy and source of stress.  We tend to expect the worst in life.  Smithsonian magazine calls this the “Age of Anxiety.”  There are macro worries that everybody on the planet worries about, they are personal and affect us every day.

Worry is assuming responsibility that God never intended for me to have.  It’s playing God, trying to control the uncontrollable. Dr. Walter Cavert has done studies on your worries.  He has discovered that:

  •       40% of our worries never happen
  •       30% of our worries concern the past
  •       12% of our worries are needless worries about your health
  •       10% of our worries are insignificant or petty concerns
  •        8% of our worries are really legitimate concerns

Worry is worthless.  It cannot change the past or control the future.  It only messes you up right now.  It is an incredible waste of energy.  It is stewing without doing.  It is a waste of creativity.  When we worry about things, they get bigger and bigger.  We are very creative about worry.

The Bible says, “Do not worry about anything.”  Probably this is the hardest command to obey.

Some people are born worriers; they have the ability to find a problem in every solution.  They look at the negative, the bad. Worry is not natural. Jesus said, in Matthew 6:6.  It is something you learn; you have to practice to get good at it.  If it is learned it can also be unlearned.

Jesus said in Matthew 6:34 “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  Each day has enough troubles of its own.”

Insight:      In order to relieve stress live one day at a time.

This is what Jesus and Paul was saying.  When Paul wrote Philippians he was in prison waiting to be executed by Nero.  The second way to reduce stress:

  1. Pray About Everything

Whenever God tells you to eliminate something He always has something superior.  He always replaces a negative with a positive.

“In everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” 

Paul is saying, don’t panic — pray.  If you stopped worrying, realize how much free time you’d have.  It would create a great vacuum, a void in your life to stop worrying.  Pray during that time.  If those people who say “I don’t have time to pray” would spend their time praying instead of worrying, they’d have a whole lot less to worry about.

In everything…”  Some people think that God is only interested in you praying about “religious” matters.  God is interested in everything in your life.

PETITION” is a specific, detailed request.  Get specific with God.  Tell Him exactly what you want and what you need.  Most people pray too vague, too general.  “God, bless my life.”  What is a blessing?  Sometimes blessings are problems.  Don’t pray general, vague prayers but be specific.  “God, I’m under stress. I’m tense, I’m nervous.”  Be specific about it.

Another translation reads:  “When you pray tell God every detail of your needs.”  (Phillips)  If it’s big enough to worry about, it’s big enough to pray about.

I Peter 5:7:  “Unload all your worries on Him since He is looking after you!”  Take our problems to the Lord, pray about everything instead of worrying.  Unload them!  Pray is a tremendous safety valve release of pressure.

A life insurance company did a study.  They learned that people who attend church once a week, they live on the average, 5.7 years longer than the general public.  Why?  Perhaps, people who attend church every week are more likely to pray than worry. Worry destroys your system.

God says unload all your worries on Him.  The God who made every thumbprint in the world different and the God who made every snowflake in the world different and the God who made every voice print in the world different is a big enough God to handle all the details in your life.  He is a God of details.  He can handle anything you give Him.

*GROWTH GROUPS are a great way to share your life and burdens with others.  Need prayer? Get in a group. People in your Growth Group will pray for you.  On a Sunday morning, use your Connection Card put your prayer requests and the Prayer Group will pray for you.

Insight:      There is no problem that is too big for God’s power or too small for God’s concern.

  1. Thank God For All Things                                                                                                  “… in everything … with thanksgiving …”

The attitude of gratitude.  The healthiest human emotion is the attitude of gratitude, having a grateful heart, being thankful. It actually increases your immunities.  It is a physical benefit to express the attitude of gratitude.  Ungrateful people also tend to be unhappy people.  Nothing every satisfies them, it’s never good enough.  They are “when… and then” people — “when such and such happens then I’ll be happy“.

If you’re depressed, make a list of fifty things you can be grateful for.  When you’re grateful, it gets the focus off your problems and gets the focus on the benefits in your life.  We have so much that we take for granted.

Develop the attitude of gratitude and watch the stress level in your life go down.  It gets your eyes off the problem and onto the many things we do have to be grateful for.

I Thes. 5:18 “Give thanks in all circumstances for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”  One part of God’s will for your life is “in all things give thanks.”

Insight:      There is always something to be grateful for.

In the next post we examine one more way to reduce stress and the result of living this way.

Darrell

www.RidgeFellowship.com

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Keeping My Confidence

Hope AgainIn the last post we discussed that confidence is not ultimately found in heritage, religion or social status but by knowing Christ.   Now how do we keep our confidence?  Here are three ways:

  1. Be Honest About My Weaknesses

 A lot of people are afraid to admit their weaknesses because they are more interested in pretending they have arrived.  Sometimes you have to choose between the two — Do I want to appear confident?  Or do I want to be confident?  Confidence is kept through honesty.

Our church is a church for imperfect people.  Like Paul, we say, none of us have arrived.  We don’t need perfect people in this church.  We are people who are growing, people who admit we don’t have it all together.

 Paul was honest about his faults.

12 I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection! But I keep working toward that day when I will finally be all that Christ Jesus saved me for and wants me to be.

To me, that’s an amazing statement, because Paul is an old man now.  If anybody had the right to claim he had arrived it would be Paul.  He wrote most of the New Testament.  He single handedly spread Christianity throughout the Roman Empire.  He made an incredible impact on the world.  Yet Paul, at the end of his life, says “I don’t have it all together.  I haven’t arrived. I’m not perfect.  I’m still growing.”

The point is, confident people never stop growing.  They are always developing, growing, expanding, and learning.  Even when he gets to be an old man, in prison, he says, “I haven’t arrived.”

That is so contrary to people today.  Many people will give you the impression that they never have any problems.  They are sinless perfection, no problems or doubts!  I get indigestion from those kinds of people.  The longer I grow as a follower of Christ the more acutely aware that I am of my own inadequacies, limitations, weaknesses and faults.  Rather than saying “Look how far I’ve come,” I have to say, “Look how far I have to go!”

Secondly,

  1. Don’t Dwell on the Past

13 No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead,

Paul says if he is going to be all God wants him to be he’s not going to waste any more time on yesterday.  It’s gone.  It’s past.  My past is past.  I let go of my guilt, grief, grudges.  I let go of the past so I can get on with the present.

How do you forget?  Isn’t it true our brain stores everything you have ever done?  Isn’t it true that we never really forget anything?  So how do I forget the former?

To forget, actually means don’t let the past affect you anymore. Don’t let it control you or have power over you or manipulate you.  I can learn from the past without dwelling on the past.  There’s a big difference.  It’s human nature we tend to remember things we should forget and we tend to forget things we should remember.  We hold on to the cruddy, garbage memories we should let go of and we tend to forget the things we should remember, the lessons we learned through it all.

Do you continue to rehearse things in your heart that God has long since forgiven and forgotten?  Some people won’t forgive themselves. They’re holding on to the past.  Everybody here has blown it.  We have things in our past that we regret.  Paul, of all people, probably had many regrets that could have haunted him.  The Bible says in his B.C. days he was a persecutor of the church.  He hounded people who were believers.  He held the coats of the men who stoned Steven, the first martyr and probably enjoyed it.  Paul faced his faults and forgot the former so he could get on with life.

Nothing you ever do will change your past.  No tears, regrets, self-pity.  The past is past, over, dead.  You can’t do anything about it.  Let it go.  Learn from it and let it go.

Another thing to not dwell too much on is the successes.  It’s so easy to rest on your laurels, to live in the past, to base your security on past performance, to think, “I’ve got it made!”  “The good old days” are done with.

The problem with success is that it tends to make you complacent and fills you with pride.  Then you stop growing and learning and then you’re going to fail.

Are you continuing to allow the past to control your present? Are you allowing a past memory to hurt you now?  Your past cannot hurt you unless you let it.  Learn from it and let it go.

This is a church where we don’t care about your past.  I’m interested in what direction are you headed right now.  That’s what matters.  Not yesterday but today.  If God only used perfect people nothing would get done.  It matters where you’re headed now.  What counts now?  What’s the direction now?  Thirdly,

  1. Keep Going in Faith

14 I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven.

 Absolutely nothing worthwhile in life happens without effort.  The only way you coast is when you’re going downhill.  If you’re coasting in life right now you’re headed downhill.

The great people in life are just ordinary people with extraordinary amount of determination.  They don’t know how to quit.  They keep on keeping on.  They never give up.

I hate the word “quit”.  It sounds like such a losing word.  I don’t like the word “impossible” either.  God says all things are possible.  Yet the world is full of quitters, people who cop out at the drop of a hat.  They give up on their marriage, their kids, relationships, dreams.  Paul said “I am not going to quit.  No matter what happens, I’ll never give up.”  I want God’s best for my life and I’m going to complete what He’s called me to do.

Notice the terms Paul uses “I strain” Feel the intensity of Paul here, the determination in the Greek it literally means “I over extend myself.  — I go for it with all I’ve got. I throw myself into it, straining with every nerve and ounce and muscle to reach the prize.”  He’s a man of intensity, maximum effort.

What would happen if Christ followers would put as much energy into growing in Christ as we do into our hobbies or favorite sports?

This is a church that focuses on the future.  We have a mission, “KNOW Christ and GROW to be like Him… and then SHOW Christ to our world.  To take the good news of Jesus Christ to everybody in this community.  As long as there is one person who doesn’t know Christ we will continue to focus on that goal.  This is a church where we do not quit.  We do not quit on people and we do not quit on things we know to be the will of God.

I need a power outside of myself to let go of the past and to be able to focus on the future and to have the power to keep going, to keep on keeping on to do the things I know to be right.  You do too.  That comes in a relationship with Christ.  Christ gives me confidence and He helps me keep my confidence.

Darrell

www.RidgeFellowship.com

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